I'm a lesbian and well im kind of confused because ive been looking at guys and thinking they are cute. So, i don't know if im a full-blown lesbian or not i mean i couldn't have sex with guys or anything but i could prolly give a quick kiss... am i still a lesbian?
2007-07-06 03:33:40 · 12 answers · asked by Awakened 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think guys are cute only when they have long dark hair an piercings but i could never have sex with them i just think they look cute.
2007-07-06 03:41:48 · update #1
I dont see anything wrong with looking. and a kiss is just a kiss. My girlfriend and I look at guys and think some of them are cute but we would never do anything with them. Dont be confused sweetie, dont put a label on yourself just be who you are and forget all the labels. Love who you love and be who you want to be.
2007-07-06 05:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Agent_m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay so...what exactly are u confused about? You're a lesbian, not blind! There's a difference between finding someone to be cute, or even sexy...and then being physically and mentally ATTRACTED to them to the point where you are lusting after them. I see men on a frequent basis and say damn, he is cute. But ONLY when i see gorgeous women do i get those tingly feelings and my mouth starts to water. LOL :) So see, there's a difference. Men i can admire from a far and NEVER EVER get up close & personal because i do not want to.
2007-07-06 11:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be so obsessed with labels. you can call yourself whatever you want, lesbian, bisexual, it doesn't mean you have to act any differently than you do now. Bi doesn't need to mean it's a 50/50 split, so you could say that you're bi. then again if you're only admiring and not actually attracted to the men you're looking at, it's not even worth worrying about.
2007-07-06 10:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think the other sex is cute and you are admiring him, it really doesn't mean that you aren't lesbian. You are just simply admiring a person's physical attributes. Simple as that.
However, if you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex, then maybe you are bi.
2007-07-06 10:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by BookButterfly 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian who looks at plenty of men and think they are cute. Doesn't mean I want to sleep with them. Kissing a man won't make you bi.....having sex with one won't make you bi either - just may mean you are curious and you may find out you never want to do it again...confirming you are lesbian. Or not.
2007-07-06 10:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
People change their way of thinking about sex often. Whom you have sex with is not predetermined, nor is it locked in stone because you did someone once at some time in the past.
It is only natural for women to want to dream life of a family, especially when they get closer to 30 y/o.
Be honest with yourself, plan where you want to be. Maybe this lifestyle isn't for you in the long term.
2007-07-06 11:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gay but yet I still look at women that are attractive. I know I could not be sexually aroused by a woman but I can still apreciate the beauty and art of the female form.
2007-07-06 10:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
that is exactly how i felt
i was a proper lesbian for about a year but now im bi but i still prefer women
just do what feels right
2007-07-06 14:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is 100% anything. The Italians and French greet with kisses.
2007-07-06 10:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Iacobus 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're a human being, A female.
And if you're finding yourself attracted to males, don't sweat it - you're not the first female to feel attracted to males.
2007-07-06 10:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋