what should I do and would I be able to get pg now?
2007-07-06 03:31:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should wait at least a year maybe even two! Your body needs to recover!! Its not at all healthy please wait it would be in your best interest!!
2007-07-06 03:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by miss.marky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes u can get pg again b/c i know people who have been pg @ 6 wk. c/u it's not good for ur body tho and think about trying to run after this one while pg or with a newborn-it's diff than multiples b/c they aren't the same age. a lady i used 2 work with-her son's first 2 r 18mos. apart and her dil had probs. w/the 2nd f/getting pg in less than a yr. i've also heard of people having a m/c b/c they got pg 2 soon. tell ur bf 2 keep his pants on & help w/this baby. my sil got pg when the 1st was 1yr. and had a hard time trying to chase a 2yr. old w/a newborn think if you have a 2mo. old @ your girl's 1st b-day-major headache!!!
2007-07-06 03:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get pregnant again and in all honestly you need some time to heal before even having sex again! You should figure out his motives for wanting you to have another baby again so soon. After you give birth your body is in a healing process and has to rebuild blood and heal what labor/childbirth damaged. Your hormones are all over the place and I wouldn't suggest messing around with that. You two should enjoy the new baby right now and if you think you are ready for sex again and not another pregnancy then you should seriously think about some form of birth control. Alot will be changing for you in the upcoming months so you should wait awhile before attempting another pregnancy.
2007-07-06 04:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amber B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can get pregnant again, but it is not safe. Your body needs at least six weeks of healing before anything goes near your vagina. Sex alone can cause you to get deathly sick because your uterus is like an open wound. Even taking a bath could cause you to get an infection, so I would not suggest sex. Also, the egg could have difficulty attaching to your uterine wall, especially since it will still be shrinking up to the end of the sixth post partum day. If he really wants another baby, and you do too, tell him you have to wait until at least six weeks from your first child's birth. However, physicians recommend 2 years between pregnancies.
2007-07-06 03:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by mamanurse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Question > are you married > if you are married and your husbands makes enough money to support you and the children > why not > also if you trust and believe in the Triune God > that would help a lot. Now if you are not married; you and your man friend may want to consider that before any more children. I shall say this > If I had know our Triune God and what our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ did for us > and was married > one would have had as many children as the Lord allowed me to get pregnant with > my dads family lived on a farm and his mother had 18 children and lived to be almost 90 years of age > believe it or not she was barely 5 feet tall if that. One believes you must be married first. The bible is clear a man is happiest when his house is full of children > if you are married and love your man and he you > go for it. Life is good and if you live life correctly you will happy > yet consider, you and your man friend accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior > finding a wonderful Church and bring your children up to love the Lord Jesus Christ also.
2007-07-06 20:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by ShinningStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wayyy too early, I don't even think you'll be able to get pregnant.
If you really want another child soon, wait 4-5 months. I know people, including my mom, who got pregnant about 4 months after having a child and they said the second pregnancy was easier because your body is still in that "mode".
So, yeah, wait a few months. Right now is way too early.
Congrats on your baby girl! :)
2007-07-06 03:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the addition to your family! :-)
Let your boyfriend know that you don't want to jump right back into having another baby. Your body needs AT LEAST 6 weeks to try and get itself back together. Some people require more time than that!
I don't know if you are first time parents or not, but I feel that he'll change his mind after a few sleepless night. Good Luck to you both!
2007-07-06 03:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Elle.Morena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st congratulations! my baby girl is now 8 months and the time goes by fast. a newborn is very much in need of all your attention. if you want to get pregnant now i would discourage it. your body needs time to heal and so does your mind. there are a lot of hormones going through you right now and you should take some time to get used to your after baby body before you make another one. you can get pregnant as soon as your period comes back. if you are nursing it may not come back until you are finished but it is different for every one. i know your bf is just excited and wants to keep the joy coming but it is very stressful on mothers and another one on the way may cause you more pain than pleasure right now. like i said my girl is now 8 months i think this is the perfect time for another one. so, think about and talk to your bf about it. good luck, she will wear you out! in a good way!
2007-07-06 03:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by beccaandruss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of two. I breast fed both of them and my husband helped me get my rest by waking up to change the diapers and the like... Is your boyfriend willing to raise your baby 50%?
If so, he must be exhausted like you are as babies wake up every 3 to 4 hours to be breast fed. They are growing the most at this point and require all of your attention and the both of you are not going to get any sleep.
Your hormones have to build back up again to produce enough natural progesterone to tell the developing fetus that it feels safe. If you don't wait, then miscarriage may be a risk.
That's besides the point, are the both of you in your right mind? I mean, a 10 day old baby and he hasn't even gotten to know his little girl.
His decision to get you pregnant right now is irrational. Unfortunately, I would see it as pretty selfish on his part and I don't foresee your relationship having any longevity.
Here's a clue... He didn't ask you to marry him, he asked you to get pregnant again!
2007-07-06 03:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have to wait until you start cycling normal again.
Why not wait until you know for sure you can actually afford 1 child, let alone two. Sure, you've got plenty of cute little outfits from your shower, but babies are expensive - diapers, formula, doctor visits, etc. you won't ralize the full impact for a few months. If you're still doing alright and feel you're financially able to afford two children, then maybe it's okay to try again.
Besides, your body needs time to adjust - it's not good to constantly be pregnant.
2007-07-06 04:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your little girl and work on you. I can't imagine why you would even consider making another baby just days after giving birth. Talk to your boyfriend, find out why he wants to have another child so soon. Procreation is a personal thing but if you are young and single, consider waiting
2007-07-06 04:14:14 · answer #11 · answered by Equinoxical ™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋