2007-07-06 03:29:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If I were you, I would just start with the truth. Just tell him and tell him soon.
You need to clean your mess. I'm sorry to put it that way, but you really got yourself into this.
I really wish you good luck, I hope everything turns out okay. Please don't have any more affairs.
2007-07-06 03:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay well you said you had an affair, so are you 100% sure its the man you had an affair with and not the man your cheated on? Either way the best way to tell them is on a day where neither of you are doing anything and have time to sit and discuss your plan. Just remember no matter what, pregnancy is a beautiful thing, I suggest just having a long talk or go and get an ultrasound and show him the picture, best wishes and stay happy and healthy, congradulations :D
2007-07-06 10:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by SuGaBeAr** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No point in beating round the bush. You know the other person better than us so you would be the best person to assess the situation. There are two types of guys out there, those who want to be fathers and those who dont. Sometimes the ones that dont just have to stand up and live with the consequences. Good Luck
2007-07-10 00:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real right or wrong answer here. In the end you will need to tell the father in your own way. More than anything, it's better to tell him as soon as possible, than to delay. Good luck.
2007-07-06 10:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by jenniqaustin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be plain and direct and clear about how you want to handle the situation. Good Luck and God Bless You!
2007-07-06 10:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he had better start saving up to pay child support which is the screwing he gets for the screwing he got
2007-07-06 10:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by DONALD W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny the only way to tell him would be to tell him straight up. Goodluck
2007-07-06 10:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to just sit him down and tell him. Does your husband know?
2007-07-06 10:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jaime V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer
or if you are classy, Maury
2007-07-06 10:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by mking785 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up - the only right way.
2007-07-06 10:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋