im 13 hes 16 only thing he does to me on his own is hug me for like 3 hours he refuses to treat me like a sexual object and gets extremely protective of me if he sees anyone tryen to take advantage of me....now when ever im with him i get very turned on...yesterday...he was sleeping and i jerked him off in his sleep and i feel really bad.......why cant i control my self around my boyfriend please help me control my feelings for him i love him so much and i kno he loves me he doesnt give any other girl the light of day because hes with me help
2007-07-05 23:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by leah d 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
and just to tell you all he says he will not let sex happen between us till im atleast 16
2007-07-05 23:52:56 · update #1
At 16 it is commendable how sensible and controlled your bf is. Preserve him like a jewel, he will be very good for you. Don be nasty again when he is sleeping, it may start things beyond , maybe his control.
2007-07-06 00:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by aWellWisher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend is being very responsible as he would be arrested if he did have sex with you before you were 16. Maybe you need to accept some of that responsibility, if you can't then you're clearly not mature enough to be in a relationship (which I really don't think you can be at 13 anyway). You're still a child, you should be enjoying your childhood.
2007-07-06 08:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen ur 13 and ur stilll reallyyyy young- a lot of girls that i know that started haveing sex at around 13 or 14 ended up getting pregnant before they were 20- at your age there is still so much that u do not know about sex- like STDs, types of birth control pills and so on- just please wait til u are a little older to start enjoying sex- right now just enjoy the time u are sharing with ur bf- and enjoy your time being a kid... yes a 13 u are still a child!! there is still so much that u do not know about life! u may think u do... but u dont- trust me on this im 18 and just got of high school last year- and finally, please just try to control ur hormones!
2007-07-06 08:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you are under the age of consent and are still considered a child. Your boyfriend is wise to wait until you are older. If he had sex with you now, he could go to jail.
2007-07-06 06:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Andee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U hv a good bf, he is serious with u. I'm anti pre-marital sex, that's y i think that he can control himself so well is something u must be very proud of, hopefully u can control urself too. Think of God, u'll find peace. Good Luck...
2007-07-06 06:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetie
its nt ur fault...its jst the age
bt a must say ur guy is preety gd n self disciplind
hats of to him
he cares for u
u ppl r vry small for these thngs
nt gd for ur age
its time to study
dnt get involvd in these thngs
first of all get stable in ur life
u need to make ur career
ur guy is absolutly rite
he dnt want u to feel guilty latr on
u ppl at this age dnt evn knw mch abt sex
jst get excited with this word
nt gd for u
hv control on urslf
im sure u dnt hv enough knwledge abt protectn
jst chuck it n concentrate on ur studies
2007-07-06 06:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by gugu 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh same problem
im male 15 and my my girl friend 13 too
and she wants to ....
but as u r bf said its not good at this stage
and i stopped her and she understood
and now when ever we meet she hugs me and me too enough
good luck to all of us
2007-07-06 07:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this is really a real person , you are very lucky to have a boy friend like that , ok plain and simple your to young take ur time
2007-07-06 12:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ofense but 13 hoey he knows your to young 13 save your virginity plz
2007-07-06 06:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, he may be afraid of being charged with statutory rape-consentual or not.
2007-07-06 15:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋