ok im 15 going on 16 and about to be a sophmor and i 've been having these dreams about me and this girl and i dont know who she is and the thing is we're makein out and doin other things. Then in school i would catch myself checkin other girls out then i would quickly stop myself but it keeps happining. Ok i would date these guys that i like but i didnt know if i really like them or if i liked them becouse i was suppose to. i find my self attracted to shows with gay or bi thems like Sowth of Nowhere and other showes ........ i dont know anymore im just so confused i just need some help anything
2007-07-05 22:26:46 · 22 answers · asked by diamondnicole330 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had weird dreams before. It's natural. I look at girls too and I am straighter than a board. So really maybe you are admiring them. Do you have daydreams about girls as well? Well have you ever been out with a boy?
2007-07-05 22:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jeana G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having dreams about girls doesn't necessarily make you gay. Dreams can be crazyass odd! Okay so anyway, bi means you like both genders, which I don't think is real. I think people are either gay or straight. Curious= bi way of thinking. You mentioned that you've dated guys, the question to ask yourself is are you sexually attracted to men? That's a big myth, I see guys from time to time that I would consider cute but I don't want to have sex with them. I want to make love to women, that makes me a lesbian. You're confused but it's okay, this is the time that you're finding out what you like. Give it time to develop. You can do it tiger!
2007-07-06 05:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by spielberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Firstly, take a deep breathe!!
Watching tv shows and fantasing, bout gals does NOT make you gay/bi!
Maybe you are just curious!
Your are 15 going on 16, you should probably concentrate on your studies etc etc, and take any romantic links, slowly but surely! Go on dates in public places, etc etc
When you are ready to commit to a relationship, it will not matter if it's with a boy or a girl, you WILL feel comfortable and at ease with yourself.
In time only YOU can decide which one of these labels you want to put on yourself!
Pav xx
2007-07-06 06:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Pav Akhtar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 about to b 16 also and I just came out the closet a few months ago.I think right now you can lable yourself as bi-curios but what you need to do is just actually ask yourself if you can truely see yourself dating and being sexually connected with another female/
2007-07-06 05:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 going on 16 do the one thing that is hardest for 15 going on 16
Wait be patient get to know yourself and explore your feelings before you rush into anything.
You are at the only age where time really is on your side
In time you will know no one else can tell you.
2007-07-06 05:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Vida 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is just to stop questioning yourself about it and just do what feels natural. Over analysing it will just make you nervous and inhibit your natural feeling. Don't worry, you don't need to make a decision today if you don't want to, just hang out with whoever you want, go out with guys if you like them and check out girls if you want to, let it go from there. There are people way older than you that still don't know who or what they are so stress less and live more.
2007-07-06 05:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Badtemper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is what all this gay and lesbian rights junk has done to the minds of our children! They don't even know what they are anymore. How sad. When I was young people knew what sex they were. You are female you belong with the opposite sex. NAMBLA would tell you different for sure. Thumbs down people for telling this child the truth. : (
2007-07-06 05:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry it takes time, to me you sound like bisexual, you´re still young and someday you will find if you are gay, bi o straight. The important thing is that you accept and love yourself just as you are
2007-07-06 05:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at the age where you are actually try-sexual. You want to try all the different life styles before deciding which one you will live. Stay open minded and you will find your own path of life to follow.
I know people who are bi-sexual, but have chosen to marry one sex and believes in being faithful to that one person. So they no longer have sex the other sex. It is their own path of life they choose to follow.
*smiles* Be patient and you will figure it out. *smiles*
2007-07-06 05:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by dxle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
geez your one horny teen I'd say your bi because you have liked guys in the past and like them now you also like girls to. But are looking for affection from girls so your more lesbian. I'd say go with being a lesbian as you fantisize about it often which is what your want what you more desire. You can have a really great time with girls that way and don't have to answer to no man. So yer go with being a lesbian.
2007-07-06 05:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋