I wake up in the morning, cranky. My poor boyfriend. I hate the sun. I hate leaving my house because I hate the sun and I hate having to stop and make small talk to neighbours. SO I'm gaining weight by being so sedentary.
I have a 4 month old and soon my bf is going back to work after his paternity leave and Ill be all alone at home which will make things worse cause my 4 month old eats like ALL day non stop so another reason I cant go out cause she will be non stop crying :(
Im so depressed cause I keep gaining weight, when I should be losing weight after pregnancy Im soon to be back at my 9 month pregnancy weight I just wanna cry.
2007-07-05 21:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by Carla 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2007-07-05 21:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you could be suffering with a bit of post natel depression.Dont ever feel that it is your fault because it it a very common condition in woman who have not long had a baby.You need abit of support and some one to talk to.Dont ever feel that you are no good . It would be a suggestion if you were to make little goals each day for your self.Build your self esteem up slowly. Take care and dont give up as you have that little face of innocence to look after and love.
2007-07-06 06:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by embellishment3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have post prenancy depression. Many women suffer it and it can be helped by seeing your dr. you'll find once you see your dr that you'll get that motivation again and will thus lose weight etc. if you stay the way you are, you'll only get worse or it'll clear up but only after several months even a year and you'll realise you've missed enjoying the special moments of your babies development :-) seek some medical help and all the best!
2007-07-06 04:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ava G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there i kinda no what u r asking,i feel the same in a way,i was engaged 4 5 yrs,with no kids[i no your situation is harder with a child]that what mine is,u c while i was with her i also put on 13kgs which put me up2 103kgs, we were happy behind closed doors, i also did not want to leave the house,living in an apartment,i dreaded bumping into neighbours,or aquantences,i hated myself my self.but i no know why, was because me and my partner went through every possible emotion, feeling, thought,from love making to fighting,to making up and all over again and again,all behind closed doors,hence my fobia,of the the big bad world,we learnt nothing other than ourselves and in your case your beautiful child.we broke up because of my fear of what other people were thinking,like u maybe,so what i can sugest 2 u is that u dont no what u got till its gone........ive changed so much from being alone but i would kill 2 show my x what she really means 2 me,dont let your insecurity blind what a beautifull familly YOU have created,get outdoors **** your neighbours and **** the world and make yourself the best u can be good luck my freind and remember u r not alone.
2007-07-06 05:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by james_vss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get a grip. Leave the cry babyness to your 4 month old grow up and be a mom. They have exercise tapes they show your moves you can do with your baby wich may be kinda fun. Get one of those jogger strollers and go jog at night time. I hate talkin 2 people 2 it seems so fake when you don't really know the people. Just take a glass of "go getter juice" and GET OFF YOUR ***! Give the baby to a friend 4 a day and chill out
2007-07-06 04:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by bigbosslady84 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound like you may have postpartum depression. You should talk with your ob/gyn about it & the feelings you have & they may be able to give you some advice to kick the "baby blues" or subscribe some medication for a while until your horomones balance out. Please get to a doctor soon, you don't want to be like some of the women who can't get help & they end up killing their babies.
2007-07-06 08:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by ChoclettJapanimation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like post partum depression to me. Alot of women experience it and are able to get through it okay. But maybe you should see your doctor-seems like it's gone on too long and not getting better.
2007-07-06 04:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by peaches 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like post par tum depression, which usually happens after having a baby. See a doctor quick or else you're gonna kill someone!!!
2007-07-06 04:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only after a month or so you will ask your b/f , how long shall I wait, come on . Jump into bed, let see those cries of birth pains later. Let us enjoy for the time being. This life.
Anita
2007-07-06 04:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by anita d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like postpartum depression. Go to your doctor.
2007-07-06 11:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing! that sounds awful. it sounds like you may have a form of post-partum depression which is very common...you're not alone! you should talk to your doctor before things get worse. good luck!
2007-07-06 04:44:59 · answer #11 · answered by froggyRN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋