I think babies are gross, contrary to what most people say. I hate it when I'm watching TV when those baby commercials pop up and my mom goes "Aw, oh my goodness it's too cute!" While in my eyes it looks really the opposite. I can't stand being close to children and I am never find myself wanting to hold one like most people do. They're just plain gross-looking. My mom says I'm strange and I need help =S
Is that true?
2007-07-05 19:53:14 · 20 answers · asked by Kiyoshisaur 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
No its not. Just don't have kids. Some people just don't have it in them to like them. Don't trip your normal. But to repeat don't have kids
2007-07-05 19:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by kila537 4 · 14⤊ 3⤋
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2016-09-29 04:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by lepeska 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - I have a 3 month old and there are definitely times when I look at my shirt and realize I wear spit up all day every day, and I hold a soggy little guy who never stops drooling. So babies are not your thing - I can relate! Some of my friends and co-workers love my baby but aren't too fond of their 7-8 yr. old kids, or their teenagers. Now me, I prefer older kids. But it's part of the package and I have to choose to look at the gross stuff as just a passing stage. There are rewarding moments too and you have to realize we were all babies once. Sometimes it just helps to understand what babies and children are going through and that helps get rid of the annoying or gross factor when you can just embrace it.
2007-07-05 20:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 4 · 12⤊ 2⤋
No. Some people just don't have that desire to have children, let alone be around them. You're not the first person who finds babies to be gross. And yes, some things are just gross, but it all comes with the package, and it eventually passes.You don't need help. Your mom is just giving you a huge, none-to-subtle hint, that she wants grandchildren from you.
To answer your question, no. You are normal. You don't like kids. There's nothing wrong with that as long as you're respectful.
2007-07-05 20:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 2 · 24⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not strange, and you aren't wrong in thinking babies are "gross." You believe what you believe, and you aren't the only one with that opinion! A large movement of people are childfree. You are normal. Don't worry about it.
2007-07-06 00:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 18⤊ 2⤋
Unusual yes, but not alone. My sister can't stand babies either and refuses to be around them. She really likes kids once they are about 4 years old, but particularly teenagers. She married a guy with adult kids who already had children, so she's a grandma. The youngest was 3 and his kids are done having children, so it works out and the teenagers stay with them during some of the summer months (fishing and stuff). I think she just can't deal with something that can't reason.
2007-07-06 03:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by TotalRecipeHound 7 · 5⤊ 8⤋
haha i think its funny! i dont think its wrong..my aunt dont like lil kids thats why she never had any and shes perfectly happy!
i might not have babies cos they annoy me after a while you jus wanna toss em outside and wish em luck!.but i dont hate em thats jus me tho, noone can make you like babies and dreading bout how you think you should like them isnt gonna make you like em...so f&ck it.
2007-07-05 20:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 2⤋
i knew a guy like that he was my old boss we used to pick on him that he was going to get someone pregnant but he was so scared of that he was abstinent lol. you are justified in feeling that way although it is unusual. just make sure you used protection or better yet get your tubes cut tied and burnt! you definitely don't need to wind up pregnant. not everyone is meant to be a parent!!!
2007-07-05 20:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by fairy 5 · 9⤊ 5⤋
I don't think you hate babies. I think you're just honest about your thoughts.
Not all babies are cute. That's for sure. I wasn't. Still working on it.
2007-07-05 20:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 35⤊ 3⤋
Most people who dislikes baby are usually very irritated by the way a baby wails, the need for constant care etc. Perhaps you have an issue some time back with baby(ies)that ticked you off seriously, and now you are very annoyed with everything concerning babies.
You could get some help finding the root of your problem and to see if it can be treated. But in most cases, when people (women) who dislikes babies get pregnant and gives birth, their views will change totally.
2007-07-05 20:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kizheart 3 · 7⤊ 16⤋