Verbal abuse question For people that have experience?

Question

If a person was constently bullied thru out there whole school life,and was constently verbal abused by both parents, and siblings;what can it do to the person phsycologically has an adult?Should the person seek out counceling?what would the persons mind set be like?

Answer 1

talking to a professional therapist would help everyone in one manner or another. We should all do it as a tune up from time to time. Letting the past go is essential for us all to be happy and put things into perspective. Getting help to do this is easy and should be done

Answer 2

It could affect their adult life. They could be stronger or could be weak individuals. Some will outgrow their childhood fears of abuse and will move on with their lives, leaving everything and everyone behind. Others will cower in the shadows of abuse and continue to be meager (they may even choose to work in jobs that don't require a lot of communication or contact with others). Others yet will become antisocial and abusive as well. The pattern of verbal abuse will continue through them.
It really all depends on the resiliency of the person. Counseling would be needed if the person continues to dwell on the verbal abuse that was brought upon them during their childhood.

Answer 3

It depends on how the person has come out of the situation. Often times, verbal abuse can be just as devastating as physical abuse. Common symptoms can be depression, anger, addiction, suicidal thoughts, low self-esteem, etc. seeking counseling would be a good idea if the person felt like his/her past affected the quality of his/her life now. Also, these kind of events can lead to very dysfunctional relationships as a n adult.

Answer 4

yeah they should seak help, it will def affect their adult life!
their confidence will be shot because they wont think they are good enough! this means they wont be as assertive in the work place and in relationships they tend to get stepped on or jelouse as well as anger problems, when you are younger and you get teased it effects so much. i mean school is a big part of someones life, its where you make life long friends, memories, your first expirences ect! what you see and hear and feel when you grow up molds you into the person you are today..
therapy can help you talk about all the things you went threw that know one else wanted to hear.. its like bad emotion over load..
when your young you are just learning emotions, how they feel and how you react to them.. actually thats why most kids pick on other kids! they were just made fun of and for them this is a new feeling which is scary and they dont want to feel this alone so they often take someone down with them and make them feel the same way..
any who my answer is yes, seeking help can help self-esteem and essintialy help them over come their past and understand how strong it made them today so they can use it to their advantage.. ya no

Answer 5

Possible negatives as follows:

low self esteem
fear of trust
socially insecure
learning difficulties
anger issues

The good news is that all these things can be overcome and a positive future and life is ahead for those that seek the help via a good therapist.

If this is you then take that positive step and good luck with the journey to wellness!

Answer 6

Everyone is different.
Some will cringe and withdraw. Some will fight and challenge. Some will deny that there was ever a problem.
Some will be helped by counseling. Some will not be (because talking isn't a safe venue).

Answer 7

everyone could use a little couseling, no one had a life full o roses, their are adverse reactions to being bullied, the tendence to bully other and be contantly on the defensive, if you need someone to talk to, i suggest getting a counelor asap.