when one says that they see the act of homosexual sex as, for lack of a more politically correct word, gross? I have nothing against a person's sexual orientation and have actively supported the civil rights of homosexuals. But while I absolutely have no intention to offend, I do have an adverse reaction to the thought of homosexual sex. While I would like to be indifferent, it is my natural reaction. Does that offend you? If it does, I sincerely apologize.
2007-07-05 17:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by RcknRllr 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That you brought it up as a "real" question makes me question your sincerity. Imagine someone showing up at the "straight-divorced-parents of illegitimate children" section asking dumbass questions about how they find heterosexual sex revolting and inane. But I don't mean to offend. It is a rather guileless comment either way.
2007-07-05 18:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is offensive. Would it be offensive if I saw a fat person and said, "you are gross to me, but if I offend you I am truly sorry"? Whatever your opinion, if you are being unkind, (and I think you know it).
If you are not homosexual and your friends are not homosexual (or you are and don't like sex), then why are you even mentioning it. If no one asked you for your adverse reaction or your opinion, then it is offensive to offer it. I don't go on the Christian board and offer my opinion as to the offensiveness of their beliefs without being asked. There would be no reason and it would be offensive.
If someone asks you, you can say " I find the idea (unless you have experienced it) of homosexual sex to be not to my taste". Anything more forceful is offensive and unecessary. And, come on, you know that "gross" is a word you use when you want to hurt. These are human beings and they have feelings, just like you think you do. Prove that you really do, and stop this kind of thing. Please.
btw, I am not implying that I disapprove in any way of anybody. The examples I used are just that, examples.
2007-07-05 17:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by pookabun1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol. . .I find this question funny in a strange sort of way. Firstly, I'm not homosexual; I'm transsexual. I am married to a man, so my 'sex' is heterosexual. Personally, homosexual sex is something which I don't find suits my tastes, and heterosexual sex is not something that I care to watch (unless it's my husband and I - okay, so maybe I'm a bit of a prude ;)
Using the word 'gross' does cause offense to some people, I would imagine, because it is a word usually used to hurt someone's feelings.
But, there's always an option: we can, all of us, just put some vaseline on the knobs of our bedroom doors so you can't get in and see what we're doing! :)
2007-07-09 17:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's gross, you certainly have your opinion, I'm not offended, there are all kinds of things that people consider gross, but that begs the question... why stand there gaping like that? Shut the door and give us a little privacy, we're busy ok? LOL!
2007-07-06 00:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more so than the homosexuals thinking "straight sex" is gross - are you offended?
2007-07-05 17:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by E_Tard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not offended. Everyone goes through a stage where they think sex of any kind is gross. Your perogative. Some people think pudding is gross. Different strokes for different folks.
2007-07-05 17:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be offended by you feeling that homosexual sex in not your thing as long as you kept it to yourself. Verbalizing it can be very hurtful which is wrong. We should always do our best not to hurt each other, either verbally, emotionally or physically.
The thought of my parents having sex was always unappetizing but I never called them on it or said anything but that would be hurtful. Also if they hadn't, I would not be here replying to your comment...lol.
So feel as you must but just keep it to yourself if it is negative and be good to others.
2007-07-05 23:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has something that turns them off. Whether it be bald men, short women, red heads, big noses or gay sex. It is normal to be "turned off" or disgusted with things that are not appealing or of your taste. The same goes for food. People like certain foods. Have tried certain foods. Have smelled certain foods and are grossed out with their sight or smell without even touching or tasting it. It is not offensive to think that you find it to your distaste, but IT IS offensive to express your opinion if uncalled for.
2007-07-05 17:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bearwithme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The act of heterosexual sex offends me. But I don't go around telling my straight friends they disgust me. Instead, I understand that this is how they feel and regardless of my own personal feelings about it, it is none of my business what they do in their bedroom. Y'all might consider trying that. Just once--try thinking about it like that.
2007-07-05 18:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jackson D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sexually attracted to another person of the same sex, that is just who you are. I accept you for who you are.
I, however, am attracted to someone of the same sex. I should be accepted for who I am.
I do not tell others that they are wrong for being attracted to the opposite sex, and I should not be told that I am wrong for being attracted to the same sex.
I am only offended when I am told that my innermost feelings are wrong, immoral, and can easily be changed. What seems to be natural to you may feel unnatural to me, while what seems natural to me may feel unnatural to you.
2007-07-05 17:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋