My husband is wonderful and works over time so that I can stay at home with our son. I tell him frequently how much I appreciate him, but would like other ideas/ gestures...
2007-07-05 17:02:00 · 17 answers · asked by annie78 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Husbands like to eat well. Make sure while you stay at home with the son that you make sure to take good care of your husband. That alone says a lot about how much you appreciate what he does for you. Another one, is make sure you look good when he comes home from work. Try a little TLC for you too. Love note under his pillow? Candy bar in his lunch pail? Favorite game to watch undistrubed? Good Luck. The fact you asked, shows you care.
2007-07-05 17:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are a homebuddy and not a busy person, you should maximize your time by doing the following, and your husband will appreciate you the way you appreciate him most:
1. When he arrives from work, prepare his favorite meal.
2. Give him a massage. Work is physically and mentally tiring. A massage will sooth his tired body and mind. A touch counts remember.
3. Surprise him by calling him during break times. Just say: I called to say I love you so much.
4. Give "unbirthday" presents/ gifts
5. On a rest day Go out with the family, have a picnic. Drive the car for him.
6. When he arrives, kiss him on the cheeks.
7. Maintain your house clean so when he arrives evrything is in order and it will not bother his already work-ravaged mind. People always want to stay in a cozy place. transform your house into a haven. A soothing ambiance.
8. Feed the children ahead of him and if you could wait for him for dinner, join him.
2007-07-05 17:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by eric-john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should setup a romantic night for just the two of you. Have your son stay at a friend's if he's old enough or with family and then make sure your husband is home. Make him a great candlelit dinner with soft music playing in the background. Then cuddle up on the couch and watch one of your guy's favorite movies. Then if he's not to tired, try to give him a back rub. Believe me it work's evry time. He'll definately know how much you appreciate him then.
2007-07-05 17:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny you ask this. Just a few days ago my husband came home from work after working almost 100 hrs in the week. (he's an engineer). Anyway, his feet were swollen and they hurt him. I give myself pedicures at home. Guess who got one too?!
Step one, have him soak his feet in warm water with good smelling, mineral foot soaking cyrstals.
Two, after about 1 hr, use a foot pumice stone and scrub his feet while you sit on the floor in front of him.
Three, use a foot polish and massage his feet.
Four, dry his feet as you sit on the floor with a big soft towel.
Five, use a foot cooler (energizing foot gel) all over and between his toes.
Six, finish with a foot moisturizer massage.
You can get this stuff at most drug stores. It might seem expensive to some but it is so well worth it. I use the "got 2b spa" line.
He will thank you for this.
2007-07-05 21:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is always good of course if he isn't too tired. Make his favorite dinner, wash his feet...I know it sounds kind of like ew but I know some men enjoy it. Like in a tub of water that type of thing and give him a massage at the same time (my husband likes that) and if he is in to oral do that too. My husband likes that better than any dessert! lol! Oh and if he has a fav dessert do that for him also and say thank you for all you do...your our hero, our kids adore you..don't know where I would be with out you. You know..stroke his ego. Best Wishes and have fun!
2007-07-05 17:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....if your husband is a hardworking person, you will discover the variety to make him experience loosen up after a tiring day. diverse the familiar strategies are cooking an exquisite meal, and rubdown:) with the help of how, you are the sole person interior the international understanding what your husband will like maximum, so word intently on in spite of issues he does each and every day:) wish you a chuffed marriage:)
2016-09-29 04:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and i know what i like and its true for most men. But i am gonna give you the clean advice...
Hugs, Kisses, beer, hugs, kisses, beer and just say how much you appreciate him. Some time all you need to do is just say it and that the best way.... Men are suckers for that.
2007-07-05 17:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by captain_dfowler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a nice candle lit dinner and a back rub after he gets home. Then let things flow as they may.
2007-07-05 17:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Spark of Insanity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow Blow for sure, sex when asked for it however asked for it, and dinner at candle light as a surprise.
2007-07-05 17:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Feeling Lucky? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take control one night when he come home from work.
Blind fold him, tie him up, and do what he will never expect. lol
then he'll know.
2007-07-05 17:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋