i know, i know, its bad to have myspace relationships, but please read.
theres this guy cody, that ive liked since may. (we met on myspace, through my friend briana) i finally got the courage to say i liked him, which it wasnt so terrible, since it was myspace, ya know? lol. but anyway he said he liked me. but i couldnt belive him. he kept telling me he did, but at the same time, he was "madly in love" with briana. if you had one glance at his profile, you'd know. did he use me? i DID get over this, ad him and briana are dating now. btw, she had a bf, but liked cody too. her bf's name was dillion, who goes to my school. she moved away about a year or so ago. and it wasnt really working out cuz we live 6 hrs away.
2007-07-05 17:01:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I really wouldn't call it used, just because your flirting was over the Internet. I could understand how he really hurt your feelings though. That must have been hard for you, what a jerk! He probably did like you but didn't want to go out with you.
Definitely look for your next boyfriend at school or at the mall, where ever you'll be able to SEE him. Relationships solely on the Internet HAVE been known to work, but not for fleety kids like us usually.
Plus, you miss out on all the touching. I couldn't stand not getting hugs and kisses from my boyfriend. That physical thing is a big part of relationships. At least he didn't use your body!
Good luck Hun, I hope everything works out for you! :)
2007-07-05 19:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Maggie Money Eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be trying to have an online relationship of any kind with a stranger on my space or anywhere else online.
How can anyone use you On Line? He may play with your emotions online, but do you really know for sure who he REALLY is?? Think about it? With all the Stalkers that prey on children and teens on My Space, you should have more respect for yourself and not be getting to know guys in that way. Friendships are one thing, but anything else just is not a good idea hun. And for gods sake, don't EVER meet anyone that you met online or on My Space, for all you know , he could be a 50 year old Pervert. Then you'd be in alot of trouble and possably in alot of danger.
Please Be Careful.....Ok??!!
2007-07-06 00:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't online date. It's too risky, too easy for your partner to cheat, plus, you'll probably never get to meet them in real life. The exception might be in a long distance relationship, where you knew the person in real life before you started talking online, and because you rarely see that person your main communication route might be through AIM or whatever. Either way, take into consideration the fact that chances are, you'll never meet this person in real life, and it can be hard to realize that at times.
2007-07-06 00:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~n~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he "used " you. maybe he really DOES like you, meanwhile being "madly in love" with your friend. Guys are complicated, we can like and love, or even LOVE 2 girls at the same time and mean it 100%.
See why love and dating are so complicated? It takes time to learn how to do it right.
Don't worry, you'll be fine, I can tell.
2007-07-06 05:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone in real life and not your friends friend I could tell that was going to happen.
2007-07-06 00:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Mummy to 2!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude you story was really confusing, but myspace relationships are dumb... yet sometimes they work.
as long as your over it... i guess its cool.
2007-07-06 00:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by taylorblunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you and your cyber-tech boyfriend...you two go on dates at Millsberry???
2007-07-06 00:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Squeegee Beckingheim :-) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋