He has lied and kept stuff from you in the past,made up stories that were not true and made promises on his own without you asking him in the first place then doesnt keep his word and says he wants to do things with/for you then doesnt.
2007-07-05 15:04:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really a husband then is he?
2007-07-05 15:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his promises mean nothing, if he doesn't back them up with action. been there done that and eventually it has a good chance of ending in divorce. we all want to believe that our spouse loves us and wants to be there for us, keeping his promises, but when he doesn't it ruins the trust and u soon loose the love and trust u had for this person. because its obvious he just doesn't care, talk is cheap and really doesn't matter much when promises continue to be broken, u just can't count on a man like this.after awhile u loose all hope.
2007-07-05 22:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that he's playing you.
But the real kicker is that you are LETTING him.
It took me a long time to learn that people can only do to me what I allow them to do...maybe not the first time.
But the second time and after, I had a choice.
2007-07-05 22:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be confused and have no aim in life. Maybe you should speak to him one day and tell him how it is effecting you as well. From his behaviour, you can seem to be able to trust him or believe him any more. Tell him that in reality, you care for him and that he needs to change his attitude.
2007-07-05 22:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk....not worth your time. Anyone who feeds you a line of B.S. isn't worth the breath they have in their body. You deserve better than what you're getting and you need to tell him so.
2007-07-05 22:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself this question. why havent you been fun to be around with. most husbands do that when there not interested anymore, and your in high waters now, if i were you next time he comes home be in some lingera and jump him.lol. then you'll find he's more agreeable with you. but please quit downing your husband. and tend to his needs too.goodluck.
2007-07-05 22:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Linda B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't abide by liars, cheats, thieves and oath breakers. Lose him. you'll be better off. sounds like you already had your mind made up and you just needed confirmation.
2007-07-05 22:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never put up with a man who has no word period.
2007-07-05 22:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is a manipulator, in order for him to continue such behavior he needs someone gullable enough to believe his lame stories.
2007-07-05 22:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like he kept his vows to honor and cherish.
2007-07-05 22:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nate and Kris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋