2007-07-05 14:42:06 · 8 answers · asked by Syaoran Li 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when I was in college, my best friend flipped his mustang and cut a telephone pole in half leaving a poker game we both went to regularly. He was on the phone (the big cell phones with a pack and cord in the early 90's). And he was talking to me at the time. We were talking about a party we were going to go to that weekend. I heard him say something then heard a horrible noise. Then nothing.
I knew his route home so I flew out there as fast as my car would carry me. Stupid, I know, but that's what I did. I found him. I got the people who lived down the road from the accident to call for help then ran to my friend. I stayed with him until he passed away. I couldn't even get him out of the car to do anything.
I have lost alot of people close to me including my grandmother, grandfather, and mother. My friend's death seemed to have the most impact on me. Perhaps because it was so sudden and so senseless. And perhaps because he knew things about me that even my mother didn't know.
But I will tell you this much. I continued my life with the same drive as before. Only, with much more focus and appreciation for the importance of living life to it's fullest. And I don't mean with reckless abandon. Quite the opposite.
In college, I was young, driven, fun-loving, and indestructible. Jay's death shocked me into the realization that the last item on that list was far from true.
2007-07-05 14:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by DragonOpinion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best friend Kathy was killed in a car accident 2 years ago this October -- I was in total shock - I still am. I cannot go to her grave yet. I've been on the road she was killed on only 2 times since it happened. I still have her phone numbers programmed in my cell and yes I still cry alot. She was my best friend and I miss her soo... much. I hope this never happens to you.
2007-07-05 14:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Suzi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be siting down on my bed, cry, not screaming crying but letting the tears fall out, i with be like this for the next few days. I will not want to play with any of my other friends for a while, not even speak to them. i will be heart broken and devistated! i don't no what will happen next, but i hope i don't go crazy and do something crazy
2007-07-05 14:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Maxwell R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my really good friend Chris died he shot himself and it was really hard on me!! most of time i would just cry and mope around the hose but now im seeing that he is not really gone he will always be with me in the memmories i had with him!!! I know that it sounds super corney but its the truth!!!
2007-07-05 14:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by boy_crzy39403126 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would mourn it of course, but I would keep on living life. What can you do? You should always live life to the fullest that you can make it.
2007-07-05 14:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Slider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just would say good bye and well what else could i done???
2007-07-06 04:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kiui 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't believe it =p
2007-07-05 14:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldnt know wut to do I would feel sooooo bad!!!
2007-07-05 14:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋