I've been seeing this woman for a few months now and I find her very attractive and polite. She works at a local nightclub as a cocktail waitress. She says she's into Asian men and has had previous dates and boyfriends. It seems I match her type of guy and she also tells me I look so sexy when I smile.
When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and we hug whenever I arrive or say goodbye. I stop by every once in awhile just for her. She always says she misses me when I haven't seen her within a week or two.
Recently, she gave me her # and I only spoke to her once on the phone. We talked for a short period because she said she was busy. When she called back, I missed her call and she left a voice message.
Today, I sent a text message to know how her Independence Day turned out and left a voice message on her phone if she received it.
Now that I've sent a text and a voice message, will she be angry if I called or text her again? I'm wondering.
2007-07-05 14:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you need a date and some better feedback than we can give you. Talk to her, but don't act clingy.
2007-07-05 14:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faint heart ne'er won fair maid. Truer words were never said. As long as she is responding keep pressing on. If she stops responding - back off. Just don't back off too early. Hey, if she works in a nightclub as a cocktail waitress, she knows how to operate around the guys. She's not going to be coy or lead you on. On the other hand, she's USED to being cordial to men and she may be a little more flirtatious than some women without really thinking that it is coming across that way. Still, her contacts with you have been genuine and friendly and seem sincere not just "business as usual".
2007-07-05 14:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by ckswife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just leave it where things are at the moment. Things seem to be moving along slowly in your direction. She hasn't rejected anything so far. Hey, she did return your call. Now you're playing phone tag. You left the last message, now it's her time to reciprocate. Don't over do & push your luck. Hopefully when she returns your call, you'll be there to receive it. The next step I would think would be for you to ask her out when you hear from her again. Let things go for a few days & see what happens. You know where she is, you can always just "stop by" to say hi. Take it from there. Good luck to you!
2007-07-05 14:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time and wait till the weekend and call her again when you now that she is not working. or maybe stop by her work like you say that you do and show her some love by just being there. dont be too pushy or she wil push back and that wuill cause a sea of rejection and thats not what you want
2007-07-05 14:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her and text her every 5 minutes so she knows you for the desperate and hopeless fool you really are.
Honesty is the most important part of a relationship after all.
2007-07-05 14:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by wld_jkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she may not be angry but you will start to send off red flags if you do not allow her the space and time to call you back. You would hate to turn her off b/c you were 2 pushy..Relax...if she likes you she will call you back or call again once tomorrow.
2007-07-05 14:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by niacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know her better than all of us on Yahoo! Answers do. But I think a simple text would be fine. No calls. If she doesn't text you back after this next one, let it go. She will communicate when she's ready.
2007-07-05 14:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she will be angry..but she may lose interest if you keep fawning all these attention on her. Women usually like some challenge too...I know I do. Try to limit some of your attention..if she's into you she will become more aggresive, thus fawning her attention on you. If she does not..then she was just flirting with you with nothing serious intended. Good luck.
2007-07-05 14:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by JaNuSdEviL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like things are moving along nicely. Don't screw it up by being too needy. Give her time to respond. Don't call or text again.
2007-07-05 14:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Hubcap Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really liked the guy i wouldnt mind. But if she likes you thens he will call back. So give her sometime and if she doesnt call back then call her again and see how she feels about you
2007-07-05 14:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by babii grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋