Isn't that kind of like giving you permission?
2007-07-05 12:10:02 · 41 answers · asked by c'mon, cliffy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! IT MEANS IF YOU SLEPT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN YOU'D BREAK HER HEART AND SHE'D WANT TO DIE SO SHE'D RATHER JUST NOT KNOW ABOUT IT...DON'T EVEN JOKE ABOUT THAT, OH MY GOD! You've got a woman, one is enough for any man, some guys haven't got any, stop being a dumbass and smarten up...
2007-07-05 12:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by First of the Gang to Die 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!! what she is trying to say is that she loves you deeply and she can not take the hurt of knowing her husband is out making some other woman feel good. Your wife is trying to continue to be happy with you and in a way telling you that she trust you in some type of way that you will think twice before you go and screw someone else. your wife is there for your every need, if there is a problem in your sex life, talk about it and fix it. dont go to the streets because the street is a road made to keep going after a stop sign is still presented(feel where i am coming from). if you love each other, there shouldn't be nothing you cant talk about to get solve. if your fantasys are not fullfilled, tell each other and go for it.
2007-07-05 12:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by diamond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married for 7 years I do not want to know who my husband slept with. It is the past and should left in the past! You are moving on with someone and something new is starting why bring something up of less importance? Does she mean the present? If so, that shouldnt happen in the first place and if it were me it would end right then and there. but if it is from the past things are best left behind if it doesnt have to do with anything in the present :)
2007-07-05 12:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by rachael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, she does not want you to break her heart.
It is one of those "Don't ask Don't tell" kind of things.
In other words, if you do cheat on her...she does NOT want to know, but she would PREFER that you NOT do it in the first place!
She loves you silly! She is testing you...by saying this and she is also saying that she wants you all to herself.....but is not coming out and saying it straight out!
Just love her and keep it to yourself...don't break her heart.
Because you could regret it later..
Like getting an STD or the other woman pregnant...
Then that will really shake up the life that she has created with you!
Good luck and blessings
2007-07-05 12:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does sound like permission
or maybe it makes her feel better about the guys shes sleeping with and not telling u about
or maybe she just doesnt trust u at all and figures its only a matter of time before u cheat so shes already decided she can deal with that but doesnt want to know about it either way its not healthy now u could be faithfull for 50 years and shell just assume u arnt telling her about the affairs your having marriage does not work that way its all abnout securety trust and honesty
2007-07-05 12:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by oldschl82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means that she doesn't want to get hurt. But don't listen to her. If you didn't tell her and she found out later, you better bet she'd be mad that you lied. Some people think it's better to not know, but after it's happened to them, they feel betrayed and like they can never trust you again. Besides, do you really want to lie to wife? Isn't part of being married sharing everything?
2007-07-05 12:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's not permission. The marriage license took permission off the table. She doesn't want to be hurt moron.
2007-07-05 12:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not like giving you permission. What it means is, "Do not even THINK of cheating on me, and if you're actually stupid enough to do it, you'd better hope I don't find out, or I swear I'll go Lorena Bobbitt on your ***!"
2007-07-05 12:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by cloudy5767 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It by no means gives you permission.
2007-07-05 12:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by DAB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not giving you permission.
What it is saying is, if you ever do sleep with someone else you had better make sure she doesn't find out or else!
2007-07-05 12:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋