Why cant we just have sex with our spouses without questioning and denying....for real.....people have sex....married people should have sex....why dont everyone just have sex....im not saying to go around...im talkin about significant others......
2007-07-05 11:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by Life! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im talking about married couples that dont have sex....one wants to (male) ....one doesnt (female) ...and just because one doesnt (female)..the other one doesnt get it (male)...and then when the other one dont get it (male), anger, problems and maybe even cheating come....
i dont support cheating from neither male nor female....but i now see y people do cheat.....
2007-07-05 11:53:44 · update #1
People begin to look at it as a chore. Once you start getting into it both parties become very interested. A hint for the ladies; men who make love to their wives do so as the utmost form of showing intimacy and love to their wives. Constant rejection becomes a form of I don't love you or I am not attracted to you anymore. How do you think it makes the husband feel? What is he to do?.....................
2007-07-05 11:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that it's normal for sexual activity in any relationship to slow down after awhile. It's going to have its highs and lows. For instance, when people have children, their sexual energy flies out the window, as they look to take care of their children instead. When their children get older, maybe said couple can be more spontaneoous. HOWEVER...if let's say the husband is pissed because the woman doesn't want to have sex while the children are very young, then Wifey might get hurt and upset with husband, and even when children get older she may not want to have sex with him out of resentment.
So many outside factors involved in this question! There can be multiple reasons for a couple not having sex with each other...and maybe looking to someone on the outside for an enjoyable sex life.
2007-07-05 11:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read a statistic that stated married couples have sex an average of 4 times a year. It's awful.
My hubby and I have an agreement that if one of us is in the mood, the other will comply unless absolutely physically unable (sick with the flu, or something like that). We don't begrudge each other our physical needs, because they're normal, healthy needs.
2007-07-05 11:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by jhvnmt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big part of a relationship and sometimes people do have promblems with it, to me it sounds like your not getting enough and your upset about it, married people do have sex, maybe not every time the other person wants it, sounds like you need to have a talk toyour significant other about what's bothering you, they may not no your unsatified with how things are going...communication is the key
2007-07-05 11:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, no couple has the same sex drive as each other. It is very frustrating for the person who wants more, be it man or woman. (Yes there are more women who want more sex from their husbands).. The constant waiting for the other to initiate for once does terrible things to the other one's ego. I guess the one who is not getting it, has to understand it is nothing personal, but man, hard to accept sometimes...
2007-07-05 11:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Freddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes even women get bored with routine...and also a little romance or date night can help keep us in the mood for sex. We need that...men don't so keep that in mind. Also women go through different changes throughout life so it can be hormonal or even caused by a drug she may have been prescribed.
2007-07-05 13:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so having sex with someone other than your spouse is what you are vying for?? why did you get married then?? you could have just stayed single and had a billion hook ups and never had to worry about anything. obviously you failed to plan out the whole stay comitted and true to your mate...good times!!
2007-07-05 11:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by lnd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a mind over matter situation....most people don't mind and the others don't care for sex!!!!!!!! Your world is NOT all about sex......get over it,life goes on without sex!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-05 11:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont see whats so important about it a relationship is not based on that also why are some ppl so horny i mean wow 5 min of pleasure it doesnt take your problems away
and why do guys get so mad when a girl dont want to F&%$ them?????
2007-07-05 11:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Never had this problem when I was married.
2007-07-05 11:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋