there is a girl at school who is about 2 inches taller than me and and about20-40 pounds heavyer than me and we both have the same tude but she is a bit meaner and the same hair and we wear the same type of cloths and we both have boobs only hers are mostly fat so why do all the guys like her!!!???
2007-07-05 10:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe it is not about physical appearance. There is something about her personality that draws these guys to her. Don't hate on her. She is just being herself. You need to focus on you and stop comparing yourself to other girls. See what your problem is... your upset that a less attractive girl is getting all the guys. Well maybe the guys can read that. Maybe they don't feel the confidence from you. Look, I am sure you are a beautiful young woman. You should think about changing up your style. Get you own look. If you don't look like everyone else you will stand out!! Those stupid boys will have no choice but to notice you!!
2007-07-05 10:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by handvict81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything you've described was a physical characteristic (except a short statement about attitude)...which seems to suggest that you think that's the only basis on which attraction is built. Ironically, THAT could be the answer to your question; your focus is too narrow right now. There's much more to you than what you look like, and that's true of all of us.
2007-07-05 17:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she is more outgoing with the guys. and maybe she is just mean to you because you look like her, some people hate that, ( there is a girl who does the same too me!!) just ignore her. your time will come. get rid of your tude (took me a LONG time) and then the guys might realize you are where the money is. good luck!
xoxo
PrincessN
2007-07-05 17:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by justagirl. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not necessarily have to do with her appearance. Maybe the guys think she's funny or easy to talk to. Maybe she has a reputation you don't know about..
If that's not at all possible, it's probable that the guys like her boobs.
2007-07-05 21:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like big chested women.....that's why so many women get boob jobs
2007-07-05 17:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋