My 'older sister was always the 'GOOD DAUGHTER' growing up. Never drank, never smoked, NEVER ............

Question

Ran with 'bad' boys.
Blew up mailboxes with cherry bombs.
Caught sneaking in at 4 am.
Came home with her shirt in-side-out.
Got suspended for flashing her boobs out the bus window.
Owned a fake ID.
Got caught trying to sneak into the strip club to win the Wet T-Shirt contest for the money.
Snuck vodka into school in a water bottle.


She just NEVER had ANY fun!!!!!!!!

What was something YOU did as a teen to have fun?????

Answer 1

Everything that you have written there is very ordinary and unimaginative.
None of it is fun. Most of it is attention-seeking.
Fun is:
The whole class who are all buddies meet up at the beach for BBQ's after school during the summer months and lark about swimming, singing, dancing, playing volley-ball.
We used to get on our Vespas & Scooters and drive off to Brighton or Newquay.
Together we all go horse-riding in the forest or sail over to the Isle of Wight for the afternoon.
Together we have karaoke competitions in different kids houses and do street plays.
Together we all go off to the forest to find the WW11 Air Raid Shelters and explore them.
Fun is also when all of us go to a theme park to have some expensive fun.
Boyfriends? Easy - when everyone is a buddy then getting a boyfriend is easy, natural, and they didn't double-cross us either.

Caught sneaking in at 4 a.m.? Good heavens - you got caught?
Flashed your boobs in public? Entered a wet T-shirt competition? Came home with your clothes dishevelled and inside out? What are you trying to tell people about yourself?
Owning a fake ID is very very ordinary.
Took vodka to school? Cider is far more effective.

Your sister had fun - you just don't realise it. She didn't need to expose herself in public to prove she was having fun. When you are a lot older you will have a chat with her and she will tell you how ashamed she was of you and she will tell you what she got up to AND NEVER GOT CAUGHT.

Answer 2

If she has never done anything bad that would give you a reason not to trust her, then you need to do just that TRUST HER. She is 17 years old now. You have to be comfortable knowing that you have done all you can do as far as instilling her with the proper values that she needs in life to separate right from wrong. You cannot pick her friends. You cannot control her friends. You cannot control what she does when she turns 18. I think your 10pm school night curfew is reasonable, since many states have state curfews for minors at the same time. I don't think she should have to be in bed at 10pm, but in the house is reasonable. I think your midnight curfew for weekends is also reasonable, giving her plenty of time to hang out with her friends and do whatever it is that they do when they are together. As for the friends, you have to hope that this is just a phase and that she will grow out of it, and realize that they are too immature for her. Forbidding her to see these friends, trying to restrict her from seeing these friends, etc are all tactics that will backfire and you will end up with her sneaking out of the house and not knowing where she is at all times of the day and night. All you can do is remind her that you love her, and that you are against tattoos and piercings. Remind her to use protection when having sex, and that drugs are dangerous. But most of all, remind her that you support her no matter what she chooses to do in life. You can only sit back and pray that you have raised her right at this point.

Answer 3

Dropped out of school and enlisted in the military when I was 16. Didn't have much fun. I was leading men on reconnaissance patrols before I was old enough to vote on the war I was fighting in.

Now I'm marrying a girl like your sister and am very happy and lucky for it.

Answer 4

percied my own nose cause my parents said no and then
took it out everyday when i got off the bus
she asked what it was but i said a pimple and she never new for a couple months then i was like wow am i 12 and took it out and let it close up i have many other stories but well yea they can get pretty bad haha

Answer 5

Well when I was a kid,we didn't do filthy things like you mention,because we had morals and integrity,we did harmless pranks like put dog-crap in a paper bag and place it on the front porch of a neighborhood bully and lit it on fire and then rang the door bell and ran behind the brushes to see the results. Usually they answer the door and get freaked out by the burning bag that they start stomping on it to put it out and get foot full of dog-crap. LMAO!!! the only bad thing about that was,If they are not home, then we watch their porch burn-up in front of our eyes,Only kidding we remove the bag.

Answer 6

I thought smoking at lunch was a big thing, until one Friday night I met up with three very hot and willing girls. I grew up in a hurry then.

Answer 7

We used to go outside and smoke weed during our lunch breaks. Also the last day of senior year we brought rum to school and got drunk in the bathroom. I miss those days.

Answer 8

pack newspaper boxes (the plastic ones) with dry leaves and set them on fire and watch them melt and the firetrucks show up and stuff, that was fun. Used to water balloon cop cars out of my friends apartment window, they never found out who it was because there was so many apartments in that tall building. We used to egg these 2 hookers to that used to stand on the corner on the street under those apartments too. Used to get served alcohol underage because the operator had a thing for me, that made all my friends sooooooooooooooo jealous, omg! ahhhh, the memories.....the list goes on............................................

Answer 9

Shot fireworks off in Church...

I always had a thing for ( The Bad Sisters) lol

Answer 10

I cut school alot and became a fast talker... sr. year.. i talked my way out of failing gym for the 3rd year in a row because I never went, and I talked my way out of summer school... awesome..