I ended a relationship from 8 years which my mom help contribute the breaking a year ago. I got into another relationship with a big package. In the begining everything was good. Now the story repets itself from my previous relationship. My mom can't stand my new boyfriend. Now every step I take she tells my kids dad and they both get along. My kids dad got married and supposibly wanted to reconsile with me. After last week I found out from his mom he was having another baby. He calls to agravate me wanting to reconsile. My mom wanted me to reconsile with my ex for my kids sake. I finally got my ex to confess today about having another baby. He still has the nerve to tell me he wants to work things out. I need some desperate help. My family lives with me there is not a day that goes by in my household without drama. The only time my family is happy is whenever I'm flipping the bill. I'm not a bank. I don't know what to do?
2007-07-05 08:47:53 · 5 answers · asked by Erika Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Christ........I'd suggest you pack up and screw. get out of the state and start a new life elsewhere.
2007-07-05 09:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give your family the cold shoulder when it comes to your relationships. At the same time, stop flipping the bill and start taking some control of what goes on in your life. Don't let the ex get in the way of your happiness. If he is having someone elses kid then he needs to step up and take some responsibility with that. He can't go around from woman to woman and just make babies. You need to be happy with where you are in your life and if not, push everything else aside and work on YOU! Good Luck!!!
2007-07-05 16:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by !~!~Edward~!~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have the courage now to tell your family to butt out, you will when you break and it won't be nice. Set some rules, important ones and ask them to respect them. If they don't tell them to respect them. Don't let them tell you that they helped you and that you owe them etc. etc. etc. Don't let them make you feel guilty, they are just using you. Stop it, stop it now for your sake. Don't live the life they want, live yours!!
2007-07-05 16:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell your family that they need to start helping out a little your u will start taking away! and as for the ex booyfriend if u still like him i think u should give him a try.
2007-07-05 15:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by In Love<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, need to get rid of the family living with you......too much of an influence on your well-being. Next, the ex, wants his cake and esting it too.....you are too good for that, foget him, and move forward for what is best for you!!!!!
2007-07-05 16:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Garry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋