2007-07-05 08:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is not a feeling it is a comitment and a choice. Relationships take work, and the "love" that you might have once felt is an emotional state that can be felt once again when you "work" on your relationship.
2007-07-05 08:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Deliao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what "JWR" said. I find myself asking the same question. I think I have come to the conclusion it's when they are more of a best friend than the love of your life.
Love is more than just a feeling, it is a commitment. If you can be committed to the other person & learn to love again...you should do everything possible to remain...fight for this relationship. See a counselor, go on the date nights, above all LISTEN, & be vulnerable.
If you are married & you are just in a boring place in your lives then spice it up together, rekindle what you once had.
DO NOT LOOK ELSEWHERE.
Try to recall why you got married in the first place. re~connect.
good luck and don't give up until you can say we tried everything!!
2007-07-05 08:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you've become so lazy that you decide not to work at your relationship anymore.
The word "love" is a verb, or an action word, meaning you need to actually put effort into it to keep it going.
2007-07-05 08:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Yogi 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
quite easy really, you will not be in the mood to make yourself up for this person. You don't want to be touch, nor simple little kiss will turn you off. And last but not the least you feel cold,your heart don't feel no pain or excitement towards that person..
2007-07-05 08:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You barely feel a twinge when you put the car in reverse to back over them one more time.
That's a sad day to reach, my man. A sad day.
2007-07-05 09:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you quit trying and don't want to give anymore
2007-07-05 08:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...nice answer JWR. I like that.
2007-07-05 08:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i like what JWR said! also i think if you have to ask yourself that...then thats your answer
2007-07-05 09:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he hits you, be littles you, and treats you like a slave.
2007-07-05 11:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in lust you mean ??
2007-07-05 08:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋