my boyfriend just got back from holiday and he has asked me to have oral with him butthething is that i am on my period i told him this but he says it doesn't matter to him. . . do i go ahead with this or shell i surgest having full on sex when i come off x Help x
2007-07-05 07:59:26 · 16 answers · asked by jerseygirl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
OK, if you are not into that offer to let him finger you instead..
Oh, and put a towel under you...clean up is easier that way!
I don't know, some guys like that bloody taste in their mouths..others are turned off by it.
Personally, I would rather jump bones in my period then have him eat at the y. Just feels a lot better.
Blessings
2007-07-05 09:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bore! A boyfriend is a friend.... and he should be a good friend to you....
a man who does not understand women needs some assist from his father or grandfather or uncles.... I mean, I *hope* they can help ..
sometimes men space in their own space, imagination, fantasies, and dreams ....but that has nothing to do with *you*!!! their desires and even their ideas get ahead of their heads and it means sometimes they ask for things that they would not ask if they were better informed or a more thinking, sensitive man ...
ik, ik, ik ... what ever is wrong with him...has he ever done this, or is it just bravado
Find yourself a grown man, please...or at least someone who is senstitive to humankind ....what a gorilla!
love,
Lakshmi
2007-07-05 15:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not into it, say "No I don't wnat to". Don't let him boss you around. But if you do want to and are just worried about the odo, blood, taste etc... don't. Some guys mind, others don't. My ex didn't mind, I would keep a tampon in, however, and just let him play with your clitoris. That way it won't be messy.
2007-07-05 15:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by evelinka420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that decision can't be made by anyone but you-if he doesn't like it-too bad!! when he starts having cramps, bloating, tender breasts and then bleeding for 3-7 days EVERY MONTH then he can decide-until then it's all up to you!!!
2007-07-05 15:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ew he wanted to do oral on you while you were bleeding? gross. or do you mean he wanted the favor done to him with nothing given to you in return since you were on your period. kind of selfish of him. =/
2007-07-05 15:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with anything sexually, and I mean anything DO NOT DO IT. Don't let any one pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do.
2007-07-05 15:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Flourqueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a decision you have to make for yourself. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
2007-07-05 15:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl DONT let him eat you out while ur on ur period...give him oral or have sex WITH A CONDOM but nothing else.thats nasty.
2007-07-05 15:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by Alisonnnnn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to, then u dont got to. if u think it will be uncomfortable for yourself, then avoid it. he can wait,,,he waited that whole holiday time, he can wait a couple more days.
2007-07-05 15:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Teenager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral has nothing to do with your period. but it is your choice
2007-07-05 15:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋