Is it wrong to tease married men if its only teasing and nothing more..?

Question

Please don't judge me...i would never get with a married man..i just like flirting with them..i'm kind of addicted to it..it gives me a rush and i feel so sexy and confident that i can make a man do anything i want and have total control over him..i love how he's so submissive to me and i feel good about myself..ok i know that sounds evi but i can't help it. its honestly like an addiction..i just want more and more....?

f*** off jackal umm i mean jackass

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with teasing! :)

Answer 2

Hi,
Ok, it's ok that you like flirting with men, no one can judge you for that. And if any other woman does than they might be a hypocrit. I know that I love to flirt. It's fun, and yes it makes us feel sexy, but here's the thing, there's a big difference between flirting and teasing. They aren't the same at all. Flirting is ok, teasing can be dangerous. Say you go someplace and you just talk to a man who happens to be married, laugh at his jokes, tell him he's cute, whatever, that's flirting, but teasing is making them want something that you know you aren't going to give them in the first place and that can be dangerous. Say you go someplace and you tease a guy, make him hot and bothered, then put on the brakes, you don't know what's going to happen, he could be the wrong guy to tease, you could end up getting raped and/or worse. So be careful for yourself, and yes teasing or flirting with a married man is wrong, because they already have a commitment to keep, if you make them think about you instead of their wife, well you're affecting the life of someone other than yourself in a negative way, and that isn't fair. So it's ok to flirt, but keep it safe, and simple, and try to stick to men you know are single, or at least not in a serious relationship, and I know figuring out if they are or not is hard, so while your flirting maybe ask, "So where's your girlfriend tonight" or something along those lines, and if he says "I don't have one" then proceed to flirt to your hearts content, as long as you aren't making him too hot and bothered because remember you want to be safe, but if he gives you an answer like "She's at home", the right thing to do would be to continue being friendly but don't flirt with that particular man anymore.

Answer 3

I am going to judge you. Stop teasing, it makes you look cheap. No man is going to ever respect you if you act this way.

As someone already said, your insecurities are taking away the security of someone else's marriage. What goes around, comes back around. I will not be sad if karma gets you for this. Grow up and act like a real woman. You are acting disgraceful, selfish, and immature. I pity any man that has to put up with you.

Find a hobby that doesn't harm the sanctity of marriage. If there's such a thing as hell...you're probably going. Get your act together and grow up!

Answer 4

I hear ya. Before I was married I loved to flirt with married men but I wouldn't go as far as you and say I was addicted. Yeah you probably need to cool your jets and try to take a break for awhile. It's ok to be a flirt every once in awhile but if it's an addiction you need to nip it in the bud.

Answer 5

Imagine you're married. You catch your husband holding eye contact with this young sweettart from around the way and he's smiling and teasing her. Now think about your question again.

Answer 6

I don't think it makes you a slüt like that one dude said -- but why the special rush when flirting with a MARRIED man? Is it the "attainability" aspect of the married guy vs single guy? I'm married, & it's flattering if a pretty girl flirts with me, but I would have been flattered when I was single, too.
Well, any how, be careful -- some guys have impulse control issues ---- and some wives have shotguns!
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Answer 7

I would assume you like to tease them because they are taken and you feel like you don't have to do anymore than tease. If done innocently I see no issue, however, some men do not take it as a simple flirt, they may go the extra mile and go above being flirtatious. How would you feel if your boyfriend. husband did that?

Answer 8

What you have just described clearly states that you have major security and self-confidence issues with yourself and need the reinforcement of the "unattainable" to make yourself feel like you are worth something.
It is very common but you really should seek some sort of counseling and find out why you are so insecure with yourself that you feel the need to do this. Because in all honesty....it isn't right. Put yourself in the wife's shoes - wouldn't it bother you if another woman was purposely dangling bait in front of your husband - it's not just the man you're messing with - it is also who his wife - and that's not fair because then you are taking away her security in her marriage.

Shame on you.

Answer 9

Although I don't doubt your low risk of actually getting with another man, this compulsion of yours isn't OK. I do judge you, even if the guys you flirt with don't. For every attractive woman, there are 20 guys with their tongues dragging along the floor who are happy with the table scraps they get. The power you have is liquid and delicious, but will get you into trouble, even if it's just trouble with your karma.

Answer 10

Aw, married men are often such easy targets, though! OK, ok, as a married woman myself, I suppose I really wouldn't care too much if you flirted with my husband a little. He's a good guy, and he would never cheat. So if it boosts his ego a bit, no harm done. He's going home to me at the end of the day, so I think it's OK.

If a woman is doing such a lousy job of paying attention to her husband that he's super-desperate for any female attention, she needs to get with the program and start being sweet again. This is totally not YOUR problem, though, so flirt away.

Personally, I always flirt a bit with an older (like mid-60's) guy in our group of friends whose wife recently left him. He's a sweet guy, and it puts a smile on his face to have 20-something gals flirt a bit with him. My husband doesn't care, either, it's all very harmless. Don't over do it, of course - you're not out to make them blush, you're just having a little fun, right? There's a huge difference between flirting and being cruel, lewd, or really teasing the guy.

Answer 11

Be careful fine line between flirting and teasing. Flirting is great just make sure your both on the same page.