Ive gone mad!!please answers this!!!?

Question

I hate myself and I cut down my arms all the time whenever i eat and then i throw it up please help because im 13 5ft 3 and weigh eight and a half stone I know that is fat please help

That is me in the pic i know its ugly but please dont leave abuse cause i get enough of that on my bebo thanks

Answer 1

I know it's easy for me to say but get help, go and see your doctor or your school councillor.

Answer 2

Your not ugly at all!. in fact, your really pretty! Those people on your Bebo must be being so cruel because they are jealous! Seriously! Do not listen to them, you are as good as anyone else and always remember that. I have been through both, and trust me, it seems like a 'quick fix' solution but cutting yourself does not change anything or make you feel better in the long run. You don't deserve it. So when you feel like you wanna cut yourself,think about the things i have said. If you really feel angry, shove your hands in freezing water as this gives the same 'release' effect but does not scar you. It sounds weird but a counsillor suggested it and it works for all the self harmers out there. After a while, you will stop. Please talk to a close friend when you feel this way instead, or a member of your family you are close to. You are sound a lovely person, please dont continue to harm yourself. You might be better shutting down your Bebo page from these jealous bullies. Maybe you should go to a counsillor, they do help. And from the your details, you are definetly not fat, but if you really want to lose weight, do it healthily, Go for walks, Eat less chocolate, more fruit etc this will help you lose weight though you dont need to as you are so young. Making yourself sick will rot your teeth, so dont please it's really unhealthy. i was anorexic, it has messed up my immune system and im ill most of the time now even though my eating's fine now, i am not fat but a healthy weight. but i was anorexic when i was 13 and i am 16 now and it has damaged my body, too late to repair so dont do the same please. I wish i could turn back the clock! I hope i have helped you best wishes, remember your beautiful, good luck! go out there and make nice friends, join a club etc you will be happier and feel better. be positive, positive things happen to positive people! x

Answer 3

first off, stop the cutting, it doesn't help. in fact it makes things much worse. Hiding it from family and friends, scars, infection etc. Second, stop blaming yourself for not being some idiots version of a barbie doll. You only have to be yourself. I saw your picture and you don't look fat to me. Stop thinking that you are. Just enjoy life, be who you are. A woman can be physically perfect in every way, and pur evil too. Beauty comes from inside, let that person out, you'll be much happier. If your weight bothers YOU ( the heck with others) than see a counselor, start a SIMPLE ( not difficult diet) and easiest of all, walk for 30 minutes every day. In 6 weeks, YOU will be able to see a difference. Meantime, Miss, find yourself some new and real friends. You need a real friend. The kind that ALWAYS have your back, never put you down, and make you laugh!! Also, you're not alone. Many others have found help thru talking with a parent, a school counsler, a nutritionist and friends. Talk to a doctor about the vomiting too.
Don't wait, start today, and don't give up. Your worth it.

Answer 4

My heart goes out to you... You're only 13 and already feeling this way. I would just suggest that you stop and ask these questions to yourself. You need to dig deep and find the answers. You are only as beautiful as you feel... not by someone telling you that you are. Beauty is something that we all view differently and it seems to me that you are just judging yourself by what you see in TV and magazines. First off, If you are fat or chunky that doesnt make you ugly or unattractive. I know some hideous women with nice bodies. They may not look ugly but they are ugly because all they care about is themselves and what they can get out of life for them. I also know beautiful people that may not fit the TV description but are sooo into helping others and not being selfish.... That's beauty! dig deep and find that about yourself and you'll finally give yourself a break. Also, stop hurting yourself. The world is full of people that want to hurt you. Why should you help them?? Like the total idiot that answered you earlier... Those people belong in jail for their lewd behaviour.

Well, I hope I helped. Please feel free to contact me if you want more advice... I've been around the block a few times and I have advice to give...

take care and good luck!!

Answer 5

Dont listen to jack A** down there he has no life... Listen dont worry about Weight try diet pills or like my freind did she was so over weight so she road her bike 3 times a day and within the first week she was losing weight and u could so tell... now the cutting prob I can see where ur coming from Iv had emotional probs too and cutting seems to make it better... Listen heres what I do instead of cutting...well one thing... well I go to my dads salvage yard and take a bat and break windows lol u can like find stuff in the garbage and go some where and beat the sh** out of it and scream its fun... or read it takes ur mind away its fun... And I think ur pretty I am so not photo genic and u really are and I dont think ur fat dont worry hang on

Answer 6

Check yourself into an institution immediately. It may sound cruel, but they'll be able to help you, and they won't keep you longer than necessary. They don't torture you there, either.

You need to learn to love yourself as you are without worrying about how others see you. A lot of the time, you feel like no one will ever love you because of the way you look, but that's not true. If people are willing to be that shallow, you don't want anything to do with them, and putting yourself through so much pain just to meet their petty standards is horrible.

Unless you can honestly tell me what you're doing makes you feel good. And then you really would need help.

But that's the bottom line. Get help. Let someone help you. Because there's no sense throwing your life away, not when you've got so much of it left to live, when you've got far more potential than what you're showing now.

Answer 7

I am the mother of a teenage daughter that did this. She hid it from me & her dad and was having a terrible time hurting & cutting herself. She was depressed and hearing voices, too. Her friend saw the cuts on her legs and made my daughter go to the school counselor, who then called us. I was heartbroken that she felt she couldn't talk to me and that she felt so badly that she had to hurt herself. Believe me when I say this, sweetie, your parents will ALWAYS love you no matter what you do, say, think, etc. You need to let them know that you need some help before this goes any further. There is help and hope for you waiting there. All you have to do is take that first step -- I know it's huge, but please talk to your parents. If you just can't, talk to another adult that you trust.

My daughter was diagnosed as bipolar. She takes one little pill each day and feels 1000% better. She hasn't cut in at least a year and is so much happier and not depressed at all any more. So, there is hope for you! Please talk to someone who can help you!

Answer 8

.Being 5ft 3 and weighing 81/2 stone does not sound fat to me .Do you know why you are abusing your body , is someone else abusing you ,are you being bullied at school what is worrying you You are a beautiful young girl whos life is just beginning dont throw it away.
YOU NEED TO GET HELP GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR .Get your self an appointment or contact
Eating Disorders Association (EDA)
103 Prince of Wales Road, Norwich NR1 1DW
adult helpline: 0845 634 1414, youthline: 0845 634 7650
email: [e-mail], web: www.edauk.com
Support and understanding around eating disorders

Answer 9

maybe there are some reasons for why you do that to yourself.... but that is never a good thing, you should find help, there are alot of people around you that would hate to see that happening to you... you should tell someone and let them take it into their own hands... someone older than you, like an adult., i dont know what 8 1/2 stone means, but i am sure you are a beautiful young lady who just cant see it, alot of girls have this problem, and its just they look at others and see them as so beautiful and then they look at themsleves and see nothing... its a problem, everyone is beautiful and special in their own way, and you just have to see that, focus on the positive things in your life instead of the negative

Answer 10

You look really pretty in your pic, you obviously have no confidence or self esteem. Is they anyone you can chat to about how you are feeling, a family member or a teacher ? Hunny your weight is definitely not what I would suggest is fat you sound the ideal weight for your age and height.

Try to chat with someone about how you feel you need to stop this self harming and throwing up.

Edit*only1duk you disgust me.

Answer 11

Are you serious? Honey please go get help. You are NOT ugly. You are beautiful just the way you are. God loves you if you feel no one else does. All cutting will do is leave you visual scars. It does not help you emotionally at all. And vomiting your food will only make you sick. This physical stuff will not help you emotionally. Find someone to partner up with to help you get over what you're going through. A good church with loveable people will help. I know, myself and a few of my friends have been there.