I seriously think I have a problem. I'm not slutty or anything like that. It's just that when I'm around men all I can think about is sex. I seriously had to stop dating because every guy I would meet I would want to have sex immediately.
I've tried everything like going to church and praying every day. I want to have a relationship and get married one day. However I know that I won't be able to get a guy to commit to me if I sleep with him too soon. What could I possibly do? I feel so torn about the whole situation. Is it possible that I'm a sex addict.
I just met a wonderful guy a week ago. We were hitting it off great but lo and behold my urges overcame me and I slept with him. I feel bad because now I don't want to see him anymore and he still wants to see me. What to do?
2007-07-05 07:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Also, I don't have low self esteem or think a man will like me more if I have sex. I simply do it because I want to do it and after I don't want to see the guy anymore so it doesn't matter if he likes me or not. It's basically about satisfying my urges.
2007-07-05 07:45:42 · update #1
Nymphomaniac would be apt. You are one. Enjoy.
2007-07-05 08:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes some people can have an addiction to sex, but if I get you right you said you just had a baby? Well if that's the case it's hormones. Your body is adjusting to this. Give it some time and if you feel you are still "addicted", which I don't think its a bad thing as long as it is with only 1 person, talk with your OBGYN.
2016-05-18 23:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF Why are you rejecting a wonderful man. You are making your own fears come to life!?! Ask him out, soon.
Now sex addict. There is a 12 step program for that. You may be able to find it in your area. There are no meetings here that I know of. Because I know the program of Narcotics Anonymous, I would strongly suggest you use their book. NA is a program about a disease called addiction, not about using drugs. There is a difference. You can have sex, but not be a sex addict. I'll bet you have more symptoms than just wanting sex so bad too. Just check it out. Maybe the most important thing you can do is starting to meet and greet therapists, until you find one you can work with about this. We all need help at one time or another. Get it.
Blessed Be
2007-07-09 08:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age. But the only advice I have to offer is this...before you even consider becoming intimate with someone, really get to know them and whether or not you have other interests in common besides SEX. Sex is really something very special between two people and shouldn't just be given away because we FEEL like it.
Allow another person to like you for WHO you are, not for sex. I think your self-esteem will improve dramatically. If a person only likes you because you are willing to have sex with them, they're not worth a piece of dirt. Do you know what I'm saying.
I don't know you, but I know you have much more to offer someone than your body. Try focusing on who the person is and being the kind of person someone wants to be with and not the sex.
I hope you make the right decision because you are worth it!
2007-07-11 06:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by prius2005toy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fantastic question this is what it is...when you was younger or a few years ago you suppressed your sexual desires now there coming back to haunt you i feel the same way because i suppressed my sexual urges try to find a loving relationship and let it out there....make sure you find a person with a high sex drive also.
Eating liquorish will suppress this feeling i eat ALLOT of this and it really works wonders.
2007-07-12 09:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest coucelling. I think you're using sex as a reason not to think about something or you havea problem. Like some people use smoking to cover up something or alcohol, makeup, drugs...etc. You could also just have more urges to do it then average people. Careful not to get STDs. Good luck, and stay safe.
2007-07-12 18:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a user more than an addict. to me you think the only way a man will like you is to open your legs get in to some serious counseling before you end up pregnant or have an untreatable std
you are the one in control of your body. to prevent the urge for sex dont go to his house or yours and be alone dates end at the door
2007-07-05 07:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would like to advise that u control yourself. If u can do so I am confident u will feel changes and recover the strength to do so. Also mix yourself in the activities other than this. U try to attend the debates/meeting of ladies who know this evil for maximum time and try to restore as a fresh human.
2007-07-06 06:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by SATENDER K 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I watched a program about sex addicts on Discovery Health channel. They all had to seek counseling.
2007-07-05 07:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by ?~GotLove~? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sex addict is like a drug addict you love smoking but like you , you probably love having sex.
2007-07-09 20:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea J. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vow not to until marriage. If a guy dont respect that, then he is not good enough for you anyway. And if you still have urges, do it yourself? ;) jk
2007-07-13 06:11:22 · answer #11 · answered by nascar man5610 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋