Who thinks that it is just ridiculus that Lily got so upset with Daniel over his watching porn? He deserves her anger now for his stupidity with Amber but really...for watching porn?
2007-07-05 05:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by sassismom 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television ➔ Soap Operas
Some women are really grossed out and disturbed by it. I tell my hubby to give me a holler if he finds anything good. lol
But I would be super pissed if he was spending our money on it, constantly lying about it, and going to strip clubs.
2007-07-05 06:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by hottiecj *~♥~*~♥~* 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Lily feels that if Daniel was 100% satisfied with her that he shouldn't have the urge to look at other women naked. His looking at other women like that makes her feel undesirable. A lot of couples do not seem to have a problem with their spouse looking at porn. Some couples even enjoy porn together. But the fact that Lily has told Daniel that she isn't comfortable with it and she doesn't want to get involved with it, that should have been enough for Daniel to stop looking at porn. The fact that he keeps lying about looking at porn is actually worse than him looking at the porn to begin with. Without trust, you can't have a relationship. He keeps lying to Lily. She should just divorce him. After all, how many chances should she give him? Every time you turn around, he is lying about something else. So, as long as both people in a relationship are fine with bringing porn into their lives, then there is nothing wrong with it. It can actually be rather pleasurable for many people. But as soon as one person says that they are uncomfortable with it and they don't want it around, then the other person in the relationship needs to show respect and not do it. To do it anyways is down right disrespectful. You also can't have a relationship without respect.
2007-07-06 01:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it had more to do with the fact that he was lying to her and hiding things from her. He really does have a problem though. He said he stopped and as he was packing to move into Kevins he had to grab a porn dvd he was hiding under the table. Lily has every right to be upset. I can't wait until the whole truth comes out and amber is exposed. Maybe Lily and Cane will hook up. That would be cute.
2007-07-05 14:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by World Peace Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lily is young,and any young wife would be offended by Daniels perverted ways.Daniel isn't the average guy,he really seems to have an addiction to porn.He still continues to lie to Lily,even in couples therapy.He doesn't deserve her,and Lily should give him the boot!
2007-07-05 18:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be a little upset that my husband paid more attention to porn then he does me. But I would be more upset if he kept lying and lying over and over again!!! The fact that he wants Amber and keeps doing stupid things for her would pist me off also.
2007-07-05 15:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ash Kat 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The lying is breaking up the marriage.
He's a sneak and liar.
What does that do to a marriage ?
The porn is just icing on the cake.
2007-07-05 15:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by cashelmara 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This goes beyond the porn. His ignorant butt is still lying to her and doesn't even want to admit that he needs serious help even after that doctor told he does. Now because he didn't here what he wanted he wants to go to another doctor? That's crazy!
2007-07-05 13:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by brinkmont 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think her issue is more that he's not respecting her wishes and continues to lie and lie about it. And this with Amber in the mix, that all makes it worse.
She doesn't want him to look at it, but instead of dealing with that dfference in opinion, he just does it behind her back. They're dealing with major trust issues, not just porn.
2007-07-05 12:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by MackMama 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Its the fact that he feels like it is ok to keep lying to his wife...over and over and over! This shows you what the wrong woman (amber) will to to a "good" man.
2007-07-05 13:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rainer 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its the porn that has Lily so angry. I think its the fact that he keeps lying about it.
2007-07-05 12:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by MJMGrand 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋