if you were dating some guy and you found out they like to crossdress after a month or so, what would you do?
2007-07-05 05:08:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go shopping. It wouldn't bother me because I am incredibly opened minded.
2007-07-05 05:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you said "Girls ONLY" but I think I can help you out a bit...be honest with the woman...!!!
My advice is to go on a few dates...maybe 3 or 4...just to see if you both click with one another...that way you won't feel like you are taking a major risk in telling her...and she will feel somewhat comfortable in you so the news will not be so shocking...
If you were to keep your crossdressing a secret then she might view this as an act of dishonesty or a case of you just not trusting her enough to tell her and you might just end up losing her whether she likes your crossdressing or not...
If you tell her too soon she might think the worst...that you are a homosexual or that you are just strange and not want to see you anymore...
Indeed this is a fine line we crossdressers tread...we are a rare breed where we can understand a woman in some ways...we can appreciate what they do to look good for us and understand why they take so long to get ready...also, we love to shop instead of watching sports on television...lol...so you'd think they would snatch us all up ASAP...lol...
Only YOU will know for certain how your lady will react...but the longer you put off telling her the more likely she will think you never told her because she will think that you cannot trust her...unfortuately us crossdressers underastand this stress more than anything and only us crossdressers can relate...try to mae her understand and respect her wishes and hopefully all will go in your favor...
Who knows...she might even like it...lol...
Best of LUCK !!!
AshleyGirl
2007-07-05 12:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by ashley_bottoms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd want to know why he does it. And if that explanation is that he's straight and he just likes wearing women's cloths that's different then if he's bisexual and this is his way of telling me. But first off where does he get his shoes cause they are so hard to find pass a size10. That would be impressive.
2007-07-05 12:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mashawn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be irritated that he did not tell me until a month into our relationship...but I would get over that irritation pretty quickly. I'd tell him my clothes are off limits though! Don't want him stretching out my clothes..I'd buy him his own sexy clothes. :)
2007-07-05 12:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date guys.
2007-07-05 12:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by FTW 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
dats hard. I would break up w/ him but try to explain it smoothly
2007-07-05 12:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Luv Da Crazii Girl♥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i love it that what ready turns me on, and i would keep him
2007-07-05 12:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hehe, I would help him shop!
2007-07-05 12:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Vez 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
its simple dress him
2007-07-06 06:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-07-05 12:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋