so i was at my boyfriends house last night and things started getting hot and heavy. We always fool around and we've had sex before, but we didnt have a condom and decided we werent going to do it for a long time or anything. so we did it and didnt use protection but he pulled out before he ****. But its not like it started and then he pulled out, he pulled out and then it started. im not on a patch or pill or anything. i looked some stuff up last night about plan b and stuff. and the side effects dont sound good. also, im under 17 so idk how i would get some. but i called an 800 number for situations like this and told her about my period and everything and she said i wasnt ovulating or fertile right now so it'd be better not to take it and that its unlikely i'd be pregnant. but theres always that chance right? ah. what should i do? please help me. im not a whore or anything, i love my boyfriend very much, i know if i was pregnant he'd support me.
2007-07-05 04:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by hey there :) 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You really should have someone get ahold of plan B for you, JUST IN CASE. The lady on the other end of the line at that 800 number absolutely can NOT know if/when you were ovulating, so her advice is completely irrelevant. You can actually get plan B yourself with a prescription. All you have to do is go to either the local health department or Planned Parenthood and explain your situation. They'll most likely write you a prescription and you can pick that up at most pharmacies.
2007-07-05 05:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Daria319 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's terrifying to know that there's even a tiny fraction of a chance that you might be pregnant, but you should try to relax. If you weren't ovulating and he didn't come inside you, then the chance you're pregnant is vanishingly small.
You should always, always use a condom or some other form of birth control, though! Sometimes a guy means to pull out but isn't quite fast enough, or you think you're not ovulating but you miscounted.... this method is not a reliable form of birth control!
If nothing else, your peace of mind is worth it. If you don't have a condom, oral is always a fun option!
2007-07-05 12:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant with my son in pritty much the same situation. we were not going to do anything then it happened without anything, he pulled out too. Some guys don't think about the precum. This fluid may only contain 1 to 10 sperm but they can live in the female body for up to 5 days. I understand that with this information you may start to worry, but please don't it will only cause you more stress. be sure to let your boyfriend know that there may be a chance that you are pregnant even though he pulled out....tell him the chance is very slim because you were not colse to ovulating, but be sure that he is aware of the possibility...and make sure if you do have to take a at home test that he is there with you for the support.
2007-07-05 12:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by new_baby_2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're chances of being pregnant are slim. But it is possible to get pregnant from the way you described. I would say go to planned parenthood, you are old enough to get the B pill and i would do that just incase. Be careful next time, this kind of scare isn't funny is it??
The lady on the phone has no way of knowing when you ovulated so don't listen to that....everyone's body is different.
2007-07-05 12:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would go to a Planned parenthood center and take the day after pill i think you have to 48hrs to take it. This would delete any chances of being pregnant. I wouldnt take any chances and wait. Because theres is always a chance of getting pregnant even if your on birth control, i was conceived and my mom was on birth control.
2007-07-05 12:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a prime example of why younger people should NOT have sex. Your obviously clueless about how your body works, or you would not be asking questions after the fact. Let me clue you in, him just being in there can get you pregnant. Him being stimulated while in there, increases the likleyhood, he did not have to complete the act inside.
2007-07-05 12:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible to get pregnant that way, but if you weren't ovulating then it is unlikely that you'll be pregnant. Try not to worry about it and just be more careful next time.
2007-07-05 12:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its possible your not but you CAN get pregnant in that situation.
You better be more careful next time. If you arent pregnant this time, you will probably get complacent and think it wont ever happen if you continue.
2007-07-05 12:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by MD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. always use a condom
2. talk to your mom/ dad about sex
3. birth control
4. yes there is always a chance you could get pregnant
5. the only way you can't is no sex
6. Use your MIND
7 STD
8. HIV
9. AIDS
10. BABY
2007-07-05 12:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by gia00601 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Wait it out. Take a pregnancy test once/if you miss your period by over a week.
2007-07-05 12:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋