it's not fair, I'm gonna be 20 next year, I'm about to be a college sophmore, I can't seem to fit in with the college party crowd, well I go to a community college, where there are no dorms or fraternitires or sororities, but I see people who get invited to parties by people from 4-year universities like San Diego State, UC Santa Barbara, all the Arizona Schools, & those people go to community colleges like me, even the one I go to, that is not even nearby those schools, I've been struggling to become more social, it's hard for me to make friends in community college because you don't see the same people everyday, people have different schedules. I'm half-white, half-mexican, but I look white & act white, but I seem to become friends with mexicans very easily & I struggle to become friends with white people, I wanna become friends with because I see that they have more fun, is not everyone meant to party?, cause thats what I've heard, or maybe God doesn't want me to party.
2007-07-05 03:49:34 · 6 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
like I'm tired of hanging out with the friends I have, because we always have ruined nights & weekends, we never get invited to parties, & when do get invited, it never happens because the people who throw the parties always lie & lagg it on us, I heard supposedly that you can't get invited to a party if you don't throw your own party first, well I don't wanna throw my own party because I'm not that social yet, & that means not a lot of people will come, thats why I've been looking for a job so I can make new friends, hopefully ones that party & know where & when parties are at & happening, friends who are reliable. I haven't been to Lake Havasu, Palm Springs, Cabo, Santa Barbara for partying yet, man, I'm so ******* jealous of all those people who get to party & have a fun social life, cause I'm always stuck at home doing nothing, I don't wanna hang out with the friends I have because everytime we hang out, it's always a waste of a night, man, why was I cursed with this life?
2007-07-05 03:55:15 · update #1
Get yer culo to the nearest bar that has live bands.
I like Metal and Rock. These clubs are full of cool peeps who will embrace you as long as you're not an jerk.
Do it mijo. You know you love Metal.
2007-07-11 21:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are not really friendly, or have an awkward personality, if nobody invite you to parties is probably because you are not fun to be around so work on that, maybe you act really strange and that scare people away, i don't know. Your Mexican friends don't party? what kind of Mexicans are those? my Mexican friends through the best parties, white people's parties are so boring. Anyways work on your personality and challenge your self, get out of your comfort zone and maybe you'll get to hang out with the people you want to.
2007-07-05 10:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
After you graduate CC, transfer to a 4 year university and party then.
2007-07-09 08:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol boy you wild. Just be friendly to people if they become your friends cool if not thats cool too. Don't try to "Fit in" with people, because thats when you stop being you and become some one else
2007-07-05 10:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tip :) 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why u wanna party so much... its not good for your health! You end up lacking in sleep and drink too much. When you lack sleep you tend to crave more food and you start to drink more coffee. When you drink coffee you start to need the toilet more and you get addicted to caffaine. You also start to get quite fat unless you dance loads and party the pounds off!!!
2007-07-10 14:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by X.x 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
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2007-07-10 10:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋