I am 20 and at a top uni. I started wearing makeup at 16 and most of the girls in high school wore it. Yet at my (more nerdy) university, most girls don't and assume that the ones that do are "stupid, sorority girls, fake, arrogant" and one of my floormates said that she thought "girls who wore makeup were ugly."
What's up with this? I've outscored on exams loads of girls who don't wear makeup, and I probably surprised them when I told them my grades.
Also people always assume my GPA is lower than it really is, but I'm on the goddamn honors roll at my uni, etc.
So why all the judgment?
2007-07-05
03:33:38
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Also another floormate wore makeup once and told me that "she felt like a clown," clearly knowing that I do wear makeup.
She was also the one that told me she thought our other 2 floormates were ugly because she said " I bet they think they are so hot, but I think they're ugly..."
So why all this hatred?
2007-07-05
03:35:08 ·
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competing for a guy? I have a long-term boyfriend and I wear makeup for my own benefit, not to get guys.
2007-07-05
03:41:25 ·
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and not to be mean, but most of the guys at my uni can't compare to my boyfriend...he's much better
2007-07-05
03:42:42 ·
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btw the only makeup I wear is eyeliner, shadow, and concealer.......
2007-07-05
03:43:23 ·
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They just feel that they spend ALL their time studying to get the "marks" they do, and stupidly think that girl who ACTUALLY have time for their looks (make up, clothes, etc) are stupid because now they cannot commit that time on their studies.
They are just nerds who dont wear make up. And want to "justify" themselves.
Next time you talk to these people who have the face to indirectly diss you for wearing make up, tell them in your own way, "some of these girls are so ugly they NEED to wear make up".
Or, just cause someone wears make up doesnt make them stupid. You'd think someone with a BRAIN could figure that out.
And for the clown comment (if you want to get back at her for it), just comment on other girls looking like "clowns wearing make up" and say "Geez, they're so stupid, they dont even know how to put on make up properly, no wonder they look like clowns"
Mostly, these girls are just jealous. Just cause they spend all day studying doesnt mean other people who get the same mark have to too. and if they cant see that, well no wonder they spend all day studying.
2007-07-05 03:48:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Jealousy probably. Or maybe they are more into the natural look. Maybe they see you have makeup on all the time and is able to go to college and maintain a high gpa is a blow to their ego. Seeing as to they study all the time (I am making an assumption) and not have time to "doll up." Who knows what the answers are, but just know that what they say won't affect you. Let them talk all they want, if you feel happy wearing makeup, then plaster it on. You have made it this far in life, don't let petty girls get in the way.
2007-07-05 03:41:29
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answered by fallenxangel2o9 2
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They probably feel a little threatened by your looks.
I personally don't like too much makeup. I wish I had never dicovered it! I only wear mascara and concealer for the occasional spot nowadays. But I have nothing against girls who do wear it/a lot of. Sometimes I see a girl wearing a LOT, and I feel bad for her because I think she would be a lot prettier without all of it...but I won't make a rude comment or anything.
I think these girls are just jealous. Just ignore them
2007-07-05 03:43:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like they are jealous because they dont know the 1st thing about make up!!!
Try and ignore their comments and continue being yourself and doing well at Uni!
When you are finished at Uni and have a fantastic job you can look back and laugh at them!!!!!
2007-07-05 03:40:04
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answered by Missy 2
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It's called competition. Not good, but common. Ignore it. One should be happy in who won is and not have to compete. Instead one should just work on ones own improvement. And of course, it is all about competing for male attention... generally the wrong kind of male. Make up is a kind of war paint. I've never understood why women want to compete for a man. If you all made common cause, we wouldn't have a chance... and we might behave better.
2007-07-05 03:36:46
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answered by ? 7
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If you feel confortable wearing it F them. Questioning yourself?
try not wearing it, but it all comes down to how does it make you feel.
2007-07-05 03:39:26
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answered by guzznos 3
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maybe the one complaining does not know how to wear or use make up, and by the complaints she might even do a perm make up of tattoos.
2007-07-05 03:39:26
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answered by ? 7
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ignore it honey! you're going to get judged no matter what you do.
put your make-up, look how you want to look and keep getting those A's...you might be the next CEO of L'Oreal if you know what I mean :)))
2007-07-05 03:39:27
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answered by googlemaniac 3
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jealousy. there is nothing wrong with makeup as long as you don't overdo it. I would not understand that either. hmm.
2007-07-05 03:37:18
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answered by Reyna 4
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through fact they're insecure. for my area in case you overdo your foundation or choose for a incorrect shade, it does not look trampy, in spite of the fact that it seems such as you're actually not using it precise. As for eye makeup, i like smokey eyes, and picture they look alluring, and make your eyes pop. all and sundry has a various definition of "too plenty makeup as properly" oftentimes its not a count of too plenty, yet possibly purely poorly utilized, contrasts with one's epidermis tone (dark eye makeup on somebody large diminished), or is hues that are actually not worn very oftentimes regularly occurring. I agree that it fairly is no one's agency how plenty makeup one wears. while i replaced into in midsection college, i went with the aid of a ingredient of large smokey eyes regularly occurring, or incredible hues. human beings picked on me consistently and pals might attempt to propose me to apply in basic terms "independent tones," and such, now, finding lower back at photographs, i visit agree that it replaced into overdone for the day in school, yet i replaced into contained in the approach of experimenting, and replaced into youthful adequate to attempt new issues with no need to sense that i glance unprofessional. in case you opt for for to choose for smokey eyes, or incredible eco-friendly eyeshadow, no one would desire to stop you. Esspecially while you're nonetheless in highschool. Rock your guy or woman form, and arise for people who're being bullied with the aid of others through fact they choose for a various form. I continuously say "in the event that they prefer it, it is all that concerns." i assume people who placed on an excellent sort of makeup are assosiated with being sluts through fact oftentimes porn stars, prostitutes, and the likes placed on an excellent sort of makeup to entice interest to themselves. at times it seems large (in spite of the fact that large dramatic) through fact it fairly is utilized precise, different situations it may look sloppy (eyeliner choppy, etc.) To sum it up: attempt to forget approximately with regard to the girls, and while you're ambitious adequate to choose for some thing like orange eyeshadow, do it!
2016-09-29 03:09:03
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answered by kianes 4
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