I met this guy off the internet. We are staring out as friends. Theres no signs that he likes me more than a friend but I'm really attracted to him. I know sex can ruin the freindship and I don't want him to loose respect for me either. How can I indicate that I like him w/o coming out and saying so? I wonder if he feels the same. He seems shy and quiete.
2007-07-05 02:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I already met him in person.
2007-07-05 02:53:59 · update #1
I already met him in person and I am not interested in a romantic relationship. I enjoy our friendship yet I have an attractiong to him. I don't wanna mess things up. I wouldn't mind getting it tapped by him. I'm curious to know what its like.
2007-07-05 05:27:52 · update #2
Go out about three more times with him as friends. Then tell him you are ready to take this to the next level. Ask if he is interested. If he is, then go for it. If he is not, then you have to decide whether you want him as a friend only or if you need to look elsewhere for companionship.
There is a good chance that he feels the same way, but is too quiet and shy to say anything yet.
2007-07-05 05:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down take you time you don't even know this guy let me give you some good advice when you have a boy friend and he knows you like him but isn't interested in you he will use you for what you got. And also if a boy considers you a friend he doesn't think of you as a gurlfriend. And before you start liking someone get to know them first.
2007-07-05 09:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Latisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone from the internet in my opinion is a bad choice to try and hook-up with. I mean if you're really into him and want him to know, try cuddling up and watching a movie and see where that takes it. If that doesn't work, I'd say to just lay off him he probably really just wants to be friends.
2007-07-05 09:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by foxracing9916 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing with internet relationships is that you really, really don't know the person. You think you do, the internet lulls you into a sense of "knowing", but you really don't know them. Suggest that you meet for lunch. See how he takes it. See if he'll say yes and then see how you feel after you meet him.
2007-07-05 09:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sassie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're just another victim for him...don't play on the internet, if you want to be safe. it's not funny or ridiculous..my friend met a guy on the internet while playing a game online and then she became friends with him...and they met..he raped her
2007-07-05 09:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex w/ someone you met on the internet! You seem too young for that.
If you want to communicate that you like him just start getting flirty and he will get the picture.
2007-07-05 09:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you are off an a good start. But you just have to wait, you see. you are going to see that he likes you more than a friend. JUST WAIT!
2007-07-05 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Audriana V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remain friends!
2007-07-05 09:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. Flirt with him and see his reaction. If he really shy's away, maybe he's not interested. If he laughs and flirts back, go for it.
2007-07-05 09:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so taking a risk !
2007-07-05 09:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋