Puberty Question?

Question

Puberty is very confusing to me. Its weird how it makes me suppose like its only happening to me, and not anyone else. It also occasionally makes me think about akward things. Sometimes, it makes me believe I'm not straight, yet I know I'm 100% straight, and I forever want to be straight. Is this all normal? I hate puberty ._.''

Answer 1

Not to worry, so far, everything you've said sound pretty normal. It's like this: As you grow to adulthood, you'll begin to identify with people you know differently than when you were a child. For instance, if you saw someone of your same gender engaging in some kind of sexual act or acting sexually, anywhere from simply moving in a sexually provactive way, to romantically kissing a friend, or more than that, and your were aroused by that, I doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to members of the same sex, it just means you identify with what they are doing and your body can potentially respond as it should. You will also find an increased awareness and attraction towards the opposite sex and an interest in the fact they are somewhat different than you. If you are straight as you profess, you will probably want to find out more about women and what they are all about. You will find ways, especially in public, that help you avoid embarassing situations, if you know what I mean. You may find also yourself watching and learning what your friends do and say (friends of the same sex and sexual orientation) when in sexually charged situations in order to be able to respond normally yourself when confronted with the same situations. At first it may be awkward at times, but after awhile, you'll figure things out and it can also be a very funny and enjoyable time. My advice to you would be to not always take these times so seriously and try to enjoy these times as much as possible and with a sense of normalcy that you have already professed. Just find some good books to read about the subject too and you should be fine.

Answer 2

It also tends to happen toward the teenage years when you aren't a child any longer nor are you an adult. It is a very confusing time. Every person alive has gone through it. Try talking to your parent or finding an understanding person to listen to you. Above all, give yourself time as you will get through it. Get involved with sports or other school activities and keep busy. You are not alone.

Answer 3

You are not bi you are not gay. You are just awash in hormones that are making you very horny. It is perfectly normal. Do not worry about it. Every normal human goes through this. It is a good time to start a serious exercise regimen because all that testosterone will give you rapid results. You will look and feel better putting those hormones to work building strength and muscle mass.

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Answer 4

It's normal to hate puberty.

I wouldn't want to go back there and I can't believe the things I've said and done during that time of my life.

All you can do is hang on there and trust that this phase will not go on for ever. Just do what feels natural and don't stress too much. Everything will fall into place.

Answer 5

puberty really is a confusing stage of one's life where we can't avoid or ignore it. it's alright if you feel weird sometimes, and makes you think of awkward things. i believe i've experienced the same thing as well. i think what you're experiencing right now is something like an identity-crisis. don't worry, you'll get through this. just relax and don't fret on things. just let it come to you and you'll work it out eventually. =)

Answer 6

don't concern yourself with whether your "gay" or "straight" yet. Just have fun, be yourself and mind your parents. we all went through it, an would never want to again. It is super tough.

Answer 7

its completely normal to think/notice the same sex.
it doesn't mean you're gay because you do that...
its all normal, that's the point of puberty!
hahah

Answer 8

it's a difficult time, i guess. thoughts like these are normal...

Answer 9

it happens to me too ! ummm maybe ur bi?!