we split up a week ago today and i have just agreed to see her a couple of nights a week to see if we can work out , ( read my other questions to find out what happened ) am i doing the right thing or am i just prolonging inevitibility of the relationship ending? please help
2007-07-04 23:19:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It quite often tends to be the case that it works better second time round than first. Try spending time apart - a couple of weeks, a month etc. If you cant stop thinking about her and want to be with her, then give it another try, and you may find your stronger than you were. If you find your doing fine by yourself, and enjoying the single life, then quite clearly you just weren't meant to be. All you can do is spend time apart and see how it works out. Good luck x
2007-07-04 23:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Notts Bubbles :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably familarity that draws you back to her. She is violent and thats no basis for a healthy relationship. i know how destructive those types of relationships are. I was knocked black and blue by an ex. She will never ever stop hitting out at you never. She might say sorry and twist it round like its your fault but its not. Please think seriously bout seeing her a cpl times a week cos you will soon get back to how it used to be. Good luck and be strong.
2007-07-05 06:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same happened to me, we split up and started to see each other at weekends only, it was better having the time apart and we got on really well. We are now back together, still only see each other at weekends as live in separate homes now, but are moving in together soon, but we will still have our own space.
2007-07-05 06:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow, in a girl's mind, when you split she thinks you still belong to her, and if that you ever start seeing anyone else is cheating, while is nothing wrong if she goes out with other friends.
I think you should really call its quits
2007-07-05 06:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by polainaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember she is a ex for a reason theres no need to prolong the inevitable ....
2007-07-05 06:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you luck but I am sceptical. I do not really see how this will benefit either of you. Confusion and prolonged heart ache all round, really.
2007-07-05 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna make her ur ex, make sure u do not c her so often, it will only make it never ending. trust ur guts, when u say stop, u must stop. treat her as a friend, and move on with ur life. u need a new girl in ur life and that girl is not ur ex, coz i believe that u broke up for a reason.
2007-07-05 06:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the sparks, magic, love and most specially respect are there then it's worth the try but with none of those...wow cut the crap! you're just after the emotional investment which is really..REALLY bad to start a relationship again! believe me!
2007-07-05 06:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by lotsofestrogen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolonging the inevitability!!
You're are giving her false hope if you have no intention of getting back with her.
Cut your ties
2007-07-05 06:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Miss B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i think u are just prolonging it. If yhoo feel it culd work then carry on. But if yhooo dont feel that spark anymore then dont lead her on
2007-07-05 06:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by (*^-Shorteh-^*) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋