My bf always wants to stay in the house i am the complete opposite and he doesnt care what can i do to get him to change. Will me taking space make him actually plan something for once??
2007-07-04 22:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by Cerina L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am having the exact same problem. My boyfriend never wants to do anything. He doesnt have any energy to do anything. I dont know if theres a cure for that! I think that they are just lazy and boring guys. Good luck trying to get his lazy butt to do something!
2007-07-04 22:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by ↓ ♥мǝow♥ ↑ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it's really important to you that you do something special together out of the house, even if it's just dinner or something. YOU need to do the planning though, or it's never gonna happen. try giving him a few options so he feels like he had a say in it.
2007-07-05 05:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by )tomorrow( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you are nagging your bf way too much. Since you are the one that wants to go out, you should be willing to pay the tab. Men don't like to nagged and they don't like women spending their money or being told what to do. You should try spreading your legs more often and letting him have his way with you. If you do not like him the way he is, I would end the relationship. Surely you need to be the one to pay when you go out with him.
2007-07-05 05:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by properly_serviced_gent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and do things with friends. That should worry him a bit in a nice way though. His wishes are also fair so make this a shopping thing with girls and dinners so he gets the point.
2007-07-05 06:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't "change" him. Talk to him, find out his reasons... his real reasons... for wanting to stay inside. Communication is the key.
2007-07-05 05:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by ravenna_wing1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my bf...and i'm very "tired" of your behaviour!so...i start to exit every day with my friends,male and female,and now he is gelous!two hours ago he called me and say:"this evening we go out ....don't take apoinaments with your fiend".....you try and good luck(sorry for some errors,i'm italian)
2007-07-05 05:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by stellina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got it easy (and cheap). You might want to rethink the relationship and why you stay in it.
2007-07-05 05:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.. there, seems like your bf stuck, you'll have to convience him to get out, make him think that there something valuable out there that wil make him happy, once he knows that somehing is for him, he will go out
make him think that somthing is out there for him, hmm... it depends unto wat is his likes
good luck!
2007-07-05 05:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite an interested place
2007-07-05 05:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab him by the scruff of the neck , make him get on his knees & say "TAKE ME OUT YOU LAZY *** *****" then spit on him :)
2007-07-05 05:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋