have sex at 15?
umm I have been having
sex with my bf but umm
im wonderng is it still 100%
safe with condoms and birth
control?
2007-07-04 20:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
hells no... its not safe wait till
you're 17 atleast
15 is too young!! do you want
to end up pregnant at that age.
I dont think so...
2007-07-04 20:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. Nothing is 100% safe except abstinence. If you have had proper discussions with you parents about the pros and cons, the truths and myths of having sex then I would say go ahead and be happy free and safe.
But due to your question, somewhere along the lines you didn't get all the proper information necessary to make proper and educated decisions. So I would say slow down. And get to know each other better, for I guarantee you that there are things about him that you may not know, just as there are things about you that he doesn't know.
Relationships take a lot of time to develop. There are those who have been married for 10, 15, and 30 years who are still learning about their mates. And you don't want to think of him as a guy that you had sex with once. or you wouldn't want him to have that feeling about you. at least I hope not.
2007-07-05 03:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Flourqueen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's illegal for starters. Your partner can be charged with rape since you are under the legal age of consent. People with convictions for sex offenses against children don't do very well in life. No one likes child molesters.
But good on you for using two forms of contraception. Just make sure you use them correctly. It's not 100% safe against pregnancy, but pretty close. There are some stds that you can catch even with condoms, so get yourself checked out periodically. Make sure that your doctor knows that you are sexually active.
2007-07-05 07:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously you aren't mature enough to make good decisions if you have to come online and ask for reassureance. 15 is way too young. You will never be truly in love with your boyfriend at this age. And admit it that he doesn't really love you... at 15 they are just in it for the sex.You know this, you just are caught up in the feeling of lust and infatuation.
To put more reality on this. Think about your wedding night. It has been a perfect day and you and your new husband danced the night away. This is it, the time you are fully and completely mature and love your husband. Now think about this: how many girls has your husband had sex with before you? Are you his first? Or are you just one of the many? If you are his first and he finds out that you had sex at 15 because you thought you were in "love" won't he feel that it cheepens your special time? If you are one of the many then doesn't that make you feel less special in his eyes? Sex is supposed to be a complete giving of yourself in a completly intimate way... but if he gives himself that easily to others how does that make you feel?
Think about it.
2007-07-05 04:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by looneylovegood4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is never 100% that nothing bad with happening. Condoms and birth control can lower the odds, but there is always a chance. Just be safe. You don't want a kid at 16!
2007-07-05 04:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by sora1387 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no nothings 100% i wouldnt have sex till i was 17 15 is to young and unsafe
2007-07-05 03:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by bloodbcult 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem to be Ok as far as safety goes, but are you sure you're emotionally ready for sex? I know you THINK you are, lol I was 15 for a whole year! I remember exactly how I felt back then and I had sex then too. Looking back, I wasn't ready to involve myself in a relationship of that level even though back then I was SO sure I loved him and he was THE one.
Please be careful.
2007-07-05 03:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Crash 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NothinG NotHing is ever a 100% percent safe....that would b why condom companies can no longer say safe sex they must only say SAFER sex
2007-07-05 03:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Claudine K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be safe.... But sweetie, 15 is so very young to be having sex.
2007-07-05 03:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're wondering if what you're doing is safe- then it is most likely NOT.
you could miss a day of pills
the condom could break
ask yourself if you could handle the consequences of sex gone wrong.
then tell me if it's safe for you.
2007-07-05 03:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by squeakycat15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋