how do i get guys to look at me? i am fairly pretty. i am very faired skined.i have light brown hair with golden highlights(natural). i have chineese eyes kinda.i have a huge ***.i am not fat but i am not skinny. i have dark brown eyes. would contacts help that?what color?
2007-07-04 20:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by whitechocolatexprincressx318 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i have the exact same problem. my butts huge :D it littearlly sticks out 5 inches from my back. i dont know if you would be able to wear colored contacts- my friend couldent cuz her eyes were too dark. but you might be able to. just wear clothes that flatter your figure- i used to hate having a huge butt but i realised about half a year ago that millions of girls wish they had it, even though its really big lol. so just flaunt it, guys like it. wear brown eyeliner, it really makes your brown eyes pop... stand tall and strong and be confident.
2007-07-04 20:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one: BUY CLOTHING THAT FITS YOU. If you are plump(even just a little bit)... NEVER wear clothing so tight your belly button shows through the T-shirt. You get the idea. Never wear jeans so you have a roll hanging over the waist band of your pants. The size on the tag means NOTHING! If you look like a stuffed sausage in your clothing--fix that right away. The flip is not to wear things so baggy that you look like a bag of potatoes. Show off the good things and minimize the thngs you dont like about your body. Dont wear too much make up- but wear enough so that you look like you care about yourself. A little foundation to even out your skin tone and mascara or lip gloss. Your self confidence is essential...YOU ARE MORE THAN "fairly pretty" got it?
Smile like you are beautiful, make enough eye contact so people remember your face but dont stare too long or be a dork. I assume you have someone in mind....talk about anything. Look up some online joke websites and break the ice with a joke. Contacts can be fun but really it's better to work with what you have. Good luck--remember that you make your own luck!
2007-07-05 03:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a girl I would look at.
Practice your smile. Make eye contact with guys and smile a little. Dress well, and keep yourself well-groomed and I guarantee that a little eye contact and a smile will drive guys out of their skulls.
I wouldn't worry about your eyes. I am blue-eyed. My first wife was green-eyed, and my current wife is blue-eyed, but I would have married her regardless of eye color.
You might want to really consider a wardrobe makeover if you think the way you now dress isn't doing it for you. The prettiest present is only as attractive as the way it is wrapped.
2007-07-05 03:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
know what are your good features and find ways to accentuate them. since you're fair skinned, buy clothes which flatter that aspect. if you feel that being fair skinned is a plus, then wear dark coloured clothings, and by contrast, you will appear "whiter". but if you're the type who prefers the tanned, healthy look, then you may not want to go down that path.
also, having dark brown eyes, rather than wearing coloured contacts, why not experiment with make up instead? i know green and purple eye shadow complements brown eyes. and also try various lipstick colours.
but all the cosmetic and beauty-add ons can't save you if you have a poor posture and low self-confidence. always stand up tall and walk with grace. don't hunch, don't slouch.
like they say, tummy in, chest out. and smile.
good luck.
2007-07-05 03:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by homeiyi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well depends on the type of guy you want
guy who wants you 4 sex=dress like slut
guy who wants relationship=be you cover yourself but no like long skirts and long sleeves just not miniskirts and low low low cut shirts
if you want a guy for like a bf have friends introduce you and what not
2007-07-05 03:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by claydoggie1991 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,
Hair i like black.. straight long hair
i like a big butt, but it has to be a nice looking one, also with something tight
showing body is what makes guys look at you
alot of the time they'll be like "id hit that" but if you're wanting a good relationship, those guys won't give you one.. "hump and dump"..
2007-07-05 03:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by in_gym_di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence. Good self-esteem. Either go mysterious/quiet or outgoing/effusive.
Lip gloss works too.
2007-07-05 03:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Illastic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if they dont notice u ten ther not the right guy for u and if u dont care about that kind of stuff ten watevr
2007-07-05 03:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by viet_azn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just have to be comfortible in your skin, and guys will see that confidence and drift your way.
2007-07-05 03:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by NHK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the simple answer is to just SMILE!!
2007-07-05 03:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs Jones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋