im14 year old girl.i love a guy.he is 27 years old.even he too loves me.we want to marry.he is ready to wait for me,untill i turn 18 to get married.we decided get married after 4 or 6 years.
but the thing is that we love each other very much and we cannot depart.we trust each other very much.IS ANYTHING WRONG IN OUR RELATION?ARE WE DOING RIGHT?WILL OUR RELATION BE SUCCESSFUL?
2007-07-04 20:04:54 · 16 answers · asked by rose123666rox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are an innocent child & he is a rascal this I call you two. He is not only much older to you rather you are still a child in you adolescent age developing physically & mentally & the thing you call love is nothing more the infatuation or sexual attraction for him which happens during this age as your sexual hormones develop & become activated. As far he is concerned he seems to be more for child sex abuse mentality as he could very well thing about any lady of his age group. At this age he should be thinking for settling in a martial life with a suitable lady of his age group rather he is indulging in flirting with a child like you. More so it’s your age of your schooling rather thinking & indulging in romance. If still you want to indulge in romantic relationship I can suggest name of my son who is of your age, he’ll be a rather good match for you.
2007-07-04 21:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it truly is humorous how, while someone is youthful, age distinction is particularly substantial. i do no longer know the place you reside, yet, in many international locations, a courting with the a while you desribe could be unlawful. it truly is basically while the two events are older, greater mature, greater suitable knowledgeable and greater matured with existence and the international that a 13 year age distinction could make no distinction in any respect. I strongly propose which you supply your self a minimum of 5 greater years in the previous you have interaction in this variety of courting. you will be shocked to discover that, in decrease than 2 years, you will sense in a diverse way approximately your boyfriend. I could desire to ask your self why a 27 year previous guy is calling for a courting with a youthful virginal woman of 14. He could be taking income of you for his very own prurient (look it up) motives that are actually not on your terrific pastimes. How do your father and mom sense approximately this?
2016-10-19 02:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi baby u r so innocent, so young this is not right age to think about love or marriage. And be careful the man is very clever he wants to use you for his body needs. Just concentrate on your study and nothing else, If this man disturbs you again talk to your parents.
One more thing now whatever we all suggesting i know you are not going to take it seriously, because u are innocents and have not tasted the world and it's peoples yet . No matter whatever suggestions we give at the end u will consider us either enemy of your love or blame us not understanding u.
2007-07-04 20:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only a fun for him to handle and then cheat you. You are totally innocent comparing his experience.
Try to get a same ager or if you are particular, get a guy 2 years elder to you to go around.
My question is what do you understand about Love in 14? You need to be atleat 18 or older to know what is what. Wait till that.
2007-07-08 01:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey little girl,
you thought about the age difference.thats good.but you didnot think about your age. you r too small for all this and what you feel for him is not at all love..its just some sort of infactuation.may be you like the way he carries himself or his behavior ,the way he talks ,his mannerisms orsomething else like thst.just with all these thingsyou cant say thatr you are in love witrh a person.
above all i think u r a student and u hv lots more to do in ur life before love and all that sort.
all the best for your life.
2007-07-04 20:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, this is not the right time to think about marriage, concentrate on studies. Now u r a cute little girl. Enjoy ur school life now.
2007-07-04 21:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about you,but i myself am in a relationship with a boy 8years elder 2 me..v both love each other a lot..n v wouldn't want our relationship 2 end..
his parents know about us both n they have already accepted me as their daughter in law..I'm 16 rite now..my parents don't know anything about this NOW...but as soon as i turn 19 I'm going 2 let them in on this n by the age of 21 i Will b married 2 y sweetheart..
u both also have Good relationship going on i guess but sit n think rationally..u both have like an age gap of 13years!!..hes already 27...hes an old man..tel him 2 go find sum1 of his age..n i guess u should find sum1 of yours age 2...in another 2-3years u will find guys of ur age more appealing 2 u..n instead of pullin the relationship on n leading it 2 a hearty break its better 2 end nw..
jus imagine..u will have 2 wait atleast 4 years or so 2 get married...in that time he will b like in his 30's!!..its ur life...sit n rely think bout wat u got urself into..
wish ya all the best..
2007-07-05 00:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by ~ab n c~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you have to start setting your priorities right and getting married should not be at the top of the list for now.
2007-07-04 20:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by mz-knw 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is blind........but if u both have faith n really love each other then keep ur love all above. A love storry is just like that u should remember in ur whole life its a cool experience for both of u... if love is from deep inside then nothing matter. u should live for eachother.
2007-07-05 12:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by sillu s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r only 14 and if u fall in love at this age it is not true love u should concentrate on ur studies leave him otherwise if ur parents will come to know ur bf will be send to jail so think deeply on my views
2007-07-05 02:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by shruti m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋