Pls. help me how to forget a girl that you love truly? What should I do?

Question

Because I don’t know where she is now, I’ve tried to look her many times, but nobody can answer me, that is why I decided to forget her. I’d rather stop this feeling in order for me to move on.

Any advise will do… just advise sincerely… Pls. help me.

Answer 1

You never FORGET. You learn to LIVE WITH. I have. Enough said.

Answer 2

All of us experience a bout with true love. Sometimes it takes the form in different people at different times. Obsession and fixation are common occurrences as well. If you love this person than that is that is needed. Live knowing that somewhere in the world there is this woman who you thought about and still ponder. Know that if the love is real you'll meet again or you will find someone who may remind you of her. Otherwise a World search may be in order if you have nothing else going for you.

Answer 3

Time heals. So, give yourself some time and space for your self. Try to occupy yourself with beneficial activities like sports, movie etc. Hang out with your best buddies. In all, have FUN and enjoy the single life. =)
goodluck.

Answer 4

I'm in the exact/similar situation you are..
I fell In Love with someone in my town last summer...
and previous; had a crush on them for three years.. up until last year when they too disappeared ...

The only thing I have left of them now is a memory; I can Remember the way they glanced at me and smiled so sweetly.... I will Always carry a Place for them in My heart and I will always love them but I also have to come to the acceptance that I may never see them again But I must Remain hopeful that anything is possible, and no matter how great the pain..they will always be in my thoughts and in my heart..

The thing is however, I went as far as drawing their surreal portrait from memory..
unfortunately 8 months of pencil work and heart..that went into the detailed overwhelming sketch will never be delivered to them..like i had hoped to have done; admitting to that I’ve forgiven myself and have come to terms and learned a valuable lesson that I should have taken the opportunity when i had to chance; to give them the art piece i had made for them and let them know how i felt about them. It’s the littler things in life that mean the most even if things haven’t worked out the way i wanted them at least i still hold a place for them in my heart...


I Too Am looking for that person i fell for and still haven't given up searching. It’s the belief that there’s a chance of maybe that they may one day return.

Again anything is possible.


I can relate to your pain...and I know how traumatic the loss is..to lose someone you love and it can be just about any kind of situation on the terms of the heart.

Its very hard remembering someone when your brains telling to forget but your heart can't let go.. and just bleeds in the agony of loves sweet pain..

i know the burden of sorrow and the suffering....and Ii know how much something like that hurts...

... you are never really going to be able to truly forget her or get over her...
there will always be a piece of her in your heart..

love is inescapable whether the situation is good or bad..

time really..
if you give it time the pain lessens but not always

try doing things that make you happy..try spending time with people/friends who make you laugh or who will do things with you
It might lessen the pain...but I cannot promise it will =(

Sometimes finding a new love who will love you for you; someone who will relax into your aura and treat things like second nature; which is comfortable would be a greater healing over absence and heartache. But you must let yourself Heal first before jumping into something. However if the other is willing to ease the heart break and pain you feel then it does make things better and it will help pull you through with your situation and make you stronger. Some times just having someone to talk to; having someone who would come to an understanding helps a lot too.



But don’t just seek advice through one person as there are many out there and even those of us like yourself, and like I who have gone through this same heart ache hell..

If you choose not to give up and still wish to find her..
try talking to people that might have known her
try speaking to your own friends who might know connections through people who knew her; or may know where she is; if shes been seen or how she’s been doing.
you open up your possibilities of finding her this way.. A little more

There might even be the slightest chance she could be searching for you aswell

this situation does occur and well niether seeker or seeked know that they are looking for one another. But it helps to build your hope and faith in the matter a little more then now, possibilities are not impossible.

just dont give up hope..
But try finding something or things
to do to release the pain

art, sports, speed, tv, listening to music singing anything even social necessities
friends who will listen, offer their guidance and comfort and who will make you laugh
that can lessen the pain

I've done these things and similar it helps alittle bit =) trust me on this.


try not to let it bring you down into the shadows of dissapointment, your loves light will shine far brighter. As It Does now and Only Grows.

If you wish to ask me more questions on the subject don't hesitate. i'll answer the best i can as I would like to help.

tc

Answer 5

the easiest way to get through the tough times is to keep yourself engulfed with someting like work, or a hobby where your mind is kept busy. If your job is something where you have alot of free time or time to think, you'll go insane.

Answer 6

Keep looking for her if you believe she loves you. The only way you will get over her is to see her again to determine if she feels the same and if your feelings remain.

Answer 7

You need to find other interests, other things to think about. Is there something you've always wanted to do? NOW is the time to do it.

Good luck.