My daughter is 15 and from before now i always thought of her as an innocent , shy daughter. She is attractive but i didnt think she was that type. Until now. She had 3 condoms in her purse when i was grabbing laundry from her room. I know it is private but i was wondering what my daughter is up to. Is she sexually active? helpppppppppp
2007-07-04 19:16:54 · 15 answers · asked by puppy doggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're asking total strangers if your daughter is sexually active? Don't you think that's a bit bizarre?
The person you should be asking is your *daughter*!
And what type is "that type"? If your daughter is having sex, you should be glad she's using condoms. I think it's time turned off the computer, stop asking strangers questions about your daughter, and have a long overdue conversation with her.
2007-07-04 19:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mira N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is, then she is responsible because she has the sense to use condoms. Most parents want to believe that their daughters remain innocent until they get married, or at least until they leave high school. Unfortunately, not all do. Just have a talk with her about what men will do and say to get what they want, about pregnancy and how condoms are not fool-proof, about STDs (especially HIV-AIDS and herpes), and about how important it is that a man respect her value as a whole human being, and should not abuse or mistreat her in any way, and most of all that she should always respect herself and not allow anyone to convince her to do anything that she doesn't feel is right!
She is just being normal. She may not even be using them. They may just be for the "just in case" purpose. You still need to have that talk.
Good Luck. This worked with my daughter.
2007-07-05 02:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel lucky she has the sense to HAVE condoms.
She might have an idea that if the opportunity ever does arrive, she wants to be ready.
Guys do this too, I sure did (without the purse though lol)
Kids are interested in sex WAY before age 15.
2007-07-05 02:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess she's active yes but at least she's being smart about it. but still she's a BABY and you had every right to be in her purse especiallly if you were suspicious. our suspiciouns are normally true.
all parents like to and normally do think of their children as innocent because theya re children. but they grow up.
personally i dont think these kids have any business running around having sex. but you as her parent, are lettinf her out of your sight long enough and into situations allowing her the opportunity to have sex, if she is. that is what i dont understand. kids having sex and parents worried about it, but how and when are they given the opportunity to do it?
don't mean to bash you in any way, but it bothers me.
parents dont talk to their kids about sex is what i'm gathering from some questions. they need to be watched more closely and parents need to be more open wtih them. and to whomever says you had no business in her things well, they're probably close to her age so overlook it. either that or just plain ignorant. who's gong to take care of her and a baby if she were to get pregnant? YOU. and who would take care of her if she were an addict? YOU. there's nothing too private for the parent of a teenager or child to know about their child.
2007-07-05 02:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can ask your daughter to be open and tell the truth. But at least she is taking safety precautions. Now would be the time to have that motherly talk with her.
2007-07-05 02:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15, she is still a minor, and therefore subject to your "parental involvement". She will see it as prying, but you are there to be her parent, not her friend. This is a great opportunity for you to approach her and not simply find out what she's up to, but to teach and guide her in the right direction.
2007-07-05 02:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by jaha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been played. She knows how to pull the good girl act. She's either really smart or you're really absent. I think its time to get to know your daughter.
2007-07-05 02:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not be. . . .i bought condoms at 15 with my friends as a joke maybe she did too. Anyway she is being safe if she is, think positive.
2007-07-05 02:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is holding them for a friend. if she is sexually active ( which i would not recommend at that young of an age) at least you know she is protected. talk to her about it but be gentle.
2007-07-06 00:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by *Jenn* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its for her friends or maybe its just to look cool or something... and I know you really don't want to hear this but if she is at least rest assured shes using protection...
2007-07-05 02:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋