Sorry I need to vent. I'm so tired of seeing people drag their younger babies to concerts, parties, or just obvious places where they shouldn't be. Especially when duh its 9:40pm at night!!! Let these inocent babies be at home resting and napping where they should be or get a damn babysitter.
Watching CMT 4th of July concert and I see this idiot mom carrying a crying 6 month old baby in the middle of a very loud concert in the front row. What????
Yes, I have a baby also but I'm grown up enough to know that life has no changed.
GRRR GROW UP PEOPLE
2007-07-04 14:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by BabyQuestions 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I agree with you. Children should be on a set schedule. If it happens once or twice, it's not an issue. But it seems to be all the time. i didn't go to the fireworks tonight because my daughter was tired and needed to go to bed. My schedule revolves around her schedule. if you need to be out, get a sitter or don't go. As a parent, you have to realize your life is not your own anymore. Don't you think that people should have to take classes to become parents? LOL Hope you had a great 4th!
2007-07-04 15:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally know where you are coming from... but you have to realize that not everyone has their baby on a regular 9-5 schedule. If the parents work 'swing shift', then maybe 10pm is really the middle of the day for them.
A parent should sacrifice alot of their personal recreational activities for the benefit of their children. I dont think a concert was an appropriate venue for little eardrums.
2007-07-04 23:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Valerie H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have absolutely no issues with parents who have their infants or small children out at weird hours. Many people do not live 9-5 lives and their children are part of their lives. If the kid is sleeping and/or happy, it's none of my business.
It's mostly the LOUD places and movie theaters that I have issues with. However, I note that some of the women actually have ear plugs in their baby's ears to protect them from the loud sounds at the movie theater. That's good! Nobody, but nobody in my theater stays put if their baby is crying. They leave. I personally don't go to big concerts--they hurt MY ears even with hearing protection. Perhaps nobody has told these younger women that they need to provide that for their baby?
2007-07-04 22:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by TotalRecipeHound 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean. There are some woman who don't know enough to take their crying_screaming child outside. If you ever go to church there is usually one mother who lets her baby-child carry on through the whole service upsetting everyone around them. The worst I have seen was one night at the movies that a woman let her baby cry _it was so bad a number of people including us got up & left.
2007-07-04 22:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree .People who adopt have to go through all kinds of back round checks and stuff to make sure that they would be suitable parents but i guess any dumb a** can get pregnant and subject there children to there bad choices.I spend time with my children in a healthy environment and do things they enjoy not drag them around .Thats not fair to the child. There are times to get a sitter.
2007-07-04 22:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I take my children everywhere with me. Who cares if it was 9 40 . as long as the mom gets up and leaves if the baby starts fussing, so it doesnt ruin the event for others......
What kind of a job does a baby have to get up for..... thats right they dont......... So they will sleep when they get home. Im sure it slept during too....... Or late the next morning , all babies do is sleep.....
My children are very good when I take them places, they dont mind noise, I usually dont go to places that are really crowded, if i chose too I would take my children...... If i cant take my children I just dont go. I dont leave my kids home with a sitter and go out and do activities without them......
I see that you think your a perfect mom....... but i find it important to involve your children in all parts of your life, and i feel I am a good mom........ so to each their own.
I have tried to take my child out of church and the father told me to stay..... said god listens to all voices............ I said thats ok, i still got up and left, its the polite thing to do.
My babies as a rule dont cry much at all.
2007-07-04 21:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by tammer 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
wow hats bad for the baby's eardrums, they are still developping.
2007-07-04 21:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Carla 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
them womans have been home all week it's time for them to get out and get their nasty on. dumb broads don't realize if they want screwed so bad . all they gotta do is tell someone. doctors may not make house calls but horny guys still do, he may even bring her a pack of smokes and a 2litre of pepsi. all she gotta do is ask.
2007-07-04 21:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 7⤋
You have a rhetorical question. Go have your tyrade somewhere else. Just be sure you're taking care of your baby and don't criticize others.
2007-07-04 21:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by London 5 · 2⤊ 8⤋