i am 24 he is 30 and i am completely in love with my boyfriend who I have been dating for 3 years, known each other for 4. But sometimes I feel like there is something that doesnt fit together. I love him, he loves me and 95/100 times I am super happy but whats up with the 5%? I cant figure it out. sometimes I am like lets break up and dont want anything to do with him. i dont know what to do! help please
2007-07-04 14:33:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny K 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No one is 100% accurate or good.Nature has some boundation, there is nothing perfect.....and this is the fact.95% is very much better or i can say he loves u very much.The only onething u check that this 95 should not drop to 94,93.....
2007-07-04 16:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by duke_nukem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you get in a quiet place by yourself and be completely honest with yourself. Really look at your relationship, when do these 5% times happen; what did he say, do what?
I think you need to look at him as if he were your bestfriends boyfriend, what would you advise her to do if you were seeing the relationship from that perspective?
Sometimes men who are emotionally abusive are covert and it is difficult to figure out what is going on, unless you really look at the situation. How does he make you feel; is he complementary, values your opinion, appreciates what you do? Or does he criticize how you look, doesn't want your opinion or blows it off, acts as if you owe him?
Ask your friends and family what they really think of him. I am sure they must have opinions too. Take those to heart. The best way to see someone for who they are is taking some time away from them. Be true to yourself and do the right thing for you. Counseling is a great way to get some feedback too.
2007-07-04 21:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because you dont feel that you have that soulmate connection with him. In order to be happy even though you say you are most of the time. You have to put you first.Find out what you really want in life and who you want to be with. Granted age is nothing but a number. You love him and he loves you. You are caught in the middle due to the fact that you have not explored your life. For the past four years you have been caught up with him and not yourself and now that you are seeing it. It makes you want to get out of the relationship and move on and see what else is out there. Love you for who you are. Don't pretend to be someone that you are not. Good Luck:)
2007-07-04 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by tiffany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be hormones too, they like to mess with your moods and stuff. Try and keep track of when you feel that 5% and you might find a pattern. Also, everyone gets aggravating with people once in awhile. No one is happy 100% of the time. And if they are, they're on lots of meds. :)
2007-07-05 02:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He maynot be the man for you sometimes even though you love somone sometimes you have to let them go.
2007-07-04 21:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by April B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you aren't totally convinced this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with
2007-07-04 21:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your friends trusted ones that don't have big mouths maybe they will see something in him that you do not
2007-07-04 21:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋