When I masturbate, I feel no pleasure. It feels like I am just aiming my penis to go to the bathroom. When I ejaculate, I go into a trance-like state. I become dizzy. It is not overly exciting.
Does anyone know why I do not enjoy it? Do you have any tips to make it enjoyable?
I am fourteen, so I do not have access to special lubrications. I use hand soap. Could this be the problem?
My masturbating form is the average one that almost everyone does (The wrapping your hand around the shaft and moving up and down). Is there a more pleasurable style of movement that will not cause pain?
2007-07-04 14:30:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I forgot to mention this: I would look for more techniques on the internet, but think what I might find...I do not need to see men having sex with other men...If you have a sex-free website that has different techniques, please post it. *Shivers at thought*
2007-07-04 14:46:03 · update #1
No pleasure? You need to have more imagination..thats 95% of masturbation..let your mind enjoy the experience and your body will surely follow. What fantasies do you have,,Picture yourself having a great encounter with whoever you wish...And get your self some lotion..soap will dry you out and not be as pleasurable..some men find just lying on their tummies moving in the way of having sex works for them....others also like touching themselves in the shower is nice. you need to find what works for you..and have fun....
2007-07-04 14:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're treating it like a mechanical exercise.
Try to find something that feels good. For some it involves scrotal manipulation...or gentle friction to the head of the penis (or the underside of the head of the penis), or any other technique...there are almost as many as there are guys out there.
2007-07-04 14:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything u need to know and more... (oh yeah, dont click on the female portion... that definately too advance for u - wait a year)
click on 'jackinexpert'
also for a lube u can buy some hand lotion - u can just say that hands and feet get dry after cleaning body
some seem a little too advanced for u, but i guess u could still try them
2007-07-04 15:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgogana2007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were lucky like me and still had your foreskin you would not need any lube when you ****. The feeling of a natural penis is great when the foreskin rolls over the head and back again. maybe you can use shampoo or a lot of your spit? this may work.
2007-07-04 16:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by darth72au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try another style,like the backhand stroke etc, i go to a special site to figure out what to do, i woud tell you but there is some nudity of a man so Forget It, anyways go to
www.Jackin world.com and find out other ways and stimulators that will please your desires
2007-07-04 16:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gonna laugh wen u hear this one
wen i masterbate i lay down on my stomach and just rub and b4 it shoots out i roll over.
not proud but it feels pretty good
2007-07-04 14:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by wwe's awesome! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your other hand. It will feel like someone else is doing it for you ;)
2007-07-04 16:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by garys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋