What do I do
2007-07-04 13:33:38 · 45 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you are not ready then don't do it. If he loves and respects you then he will wait until you are ready.
2007-07-04 13:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him or anyone ever pressure you into sex. Tell him that you are just not ready yet. If that is the truth, there is really not much else you can do about it. Only do what YOU feel ready for and listen to your heart.
2007-07-04 13:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone...don't do it until you're ready!
If he cannot accept that you want to wait and pressures you then he's really not worth keeping. What if all he wants from you is sex? He gets what he wants then he's off to the next girl. Kissing, touching, hugging is fine if he still wants more or attempts to get more and you don't want to do more than that it's time to say adios! Good luck and wait until you're ready not when he's ready.
2007-07-04 13:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by You can call me Rob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend wants you to have sex with him but ur not ready, its simple. Say that ur not ready and be honest because if ur not its gonna get messy. But hey take the comment u give him easy cause u dont want ur good relationship to go horrible.
Be honest, Easy, And Simple
Goodluck <3
2007-07-04 13:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by reggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to then stay firm about it. If you end up doing it when you're not ready you'll regret it, and I'm sure you'll want it to be something memorable. If he cares about you he'll understand and not pressure you. If not then you get to see his true colors and should possibly rethink the relationship. Find someone who respects your decision if he won't. Don't do anything you're not ready to do.
2007-07-04 13:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mekana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should tell him how you feel. Explain that you are not ready, but you would like for him to be the one when you are ready.
2007-07-04 13:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tony M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready, NEVER let someone pressure you and if he does then leave him. Once you have sex there is no turning back, and if you are not ready you feel disrespect for yourself.
2007-07-04 13:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say im not ready my boyfriend understands that we r not ready yet and if he really loves u then he will respect ur decision and wait 4 u but if he says no i want somebody i can f*** right now then 4get him cuz he is not worth that
2007-07-04 13:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by mdmel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question, then you are right, you are'nt ready. Don't have sex with someone that you are afraid to confront with something as basic as respecting your need to wait.
2007-07-04 13:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by bobstjohns05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready don't do it. He'll just dump you afterwards and it will be a really bad memmory. Wait til the time and person is right.
2007-07-04 13:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Karen K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋