i've been with y boyfriend for 8 months. we are deeply in love and are very happy. i have been on the shot for 2 months now is it safe for him to finish in me?
2007-07-04 13:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First, I'll say, if you're a minor, you should be asking your mother or father this -- if you don't feel comfortable talking with them about it, then the answer is a vibrator (or a nice massaging shower head).
Otherwise, the shot, alike the pill, isn't always 100% effective -- there's ALWAYS a risk that you'll get pregnant, it's just severely reduced.
I'd make sure that I (and he) was tested for every STD on the face of the earth (including that fun one where they jab a 6" cue-tip into your penis and turn it a couple of times) just to be sure you're not getting anything.
If it all comes back clean, and you're willing to take the (all-be-it minimal) risk of pregnancy, then go for it.
2007-07-04 13:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, although the shot is an effective form of birth control it is not 100% and does not protect against any STD's.
Both the shot and the pill are best used in conjunction with a condom.
2007-07-04 13:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie RN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for you to have sex, but there is still a chance you could get pregnant.
Just remember that no contraceptive is 100% effective except for abstinence, and the shot only helps protect against pregnancy and NOT against STDs.
2007-07-04 13:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be too sure. You should always use protection to be extra careful because there is always that small percentage of people who do get pregnant even with different forms of birth control. Stay safe
2007-07-04 13:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best answer you should be hearing is this:NO! just because you may not be fertile, (but you might be-you wont know until its too late) you still need for him to wear a condom. remember, safe sex, you dont want to receive the gift that keep giving-and std for life. ;)michele
2007-07-04 13:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by nurseflowergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah and no you wont get pregnant if that is what you are asking but how sure are you that he does not have a std do you trust him 100% i say go get tested for stds togeter and if everthing comes back clear then i dont see a reason why not
2007-07-04 13:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by LilTasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. BC devices are not fool proof. 8 months is not deeply in love anyway
2007-07-04 13:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by amcfan84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its safe only if you are absolutely sure he doesn't have an STD.
2007-07-04 13:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude,just use a condom. it's 99% safer than anything else.
2007-07-04 15:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by emmyelaine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋