I know this is petty, but I want revenge (not of the physical sort) on someone who inadvertantly spread a nasty rumor about me. I want to "mindf*ck" her (i.e. mess with her mind, so she thinks I am crazy and on edge every time i speak with her.) How can I do this to maximum effect. By the way, we are actually kind of friends and i don't want any lasting damage to be done, so psychological torture is out of the question.
2007-07-04 11:50:47 · 10 answers · asked by gregthenerd121 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
From what you're planning, I would deduce that you don't have the necessary apparatus to play mind games.
2007-07-04 11:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha, buddy you got to pick whether you want to stay friends with her or not. Remorse or regret here is not an option so...
Ming games...hmm, well it depends what effect you want to achieve.
Play with her mind. You could totally change your wardrobe when you see her. Make her think you went emo, dress in all black and look down, pretend like you're so depressed out of your mind, so she'll feel guilty and apologize.
OR:
Plan b. You could maker her even madder if you do totally the opposite: go all out like you're living the life, throw little parties but ask friends to talk about them the next day like they were utterly wild in front of her, and that she wasn't invited to any of them.
There are many ways of getting even...
2007-07-04 12:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by London 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to do nice things for her, but don't let her know it. This can serve many purposes. First, she may end up liking you; you may end up liking her; and if these two things don't happen, a kindness can act like hot coals being heaped upon their head. In the end you can't look bad, because you only did good things! Being nice is the worst mind game of all, but it also isn't bad. The worst it can do is leave people with a good impression of you.
2007-07-04 11:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly getting even doesn't work. You want to get even just laugh it off just go on with life and when she does something, shrug your shoulders and walk away.
The best way to get even is to show that they are so insignificant that whatever they do means nothing to you.
When you are in group of friends and she walks bye say " she is so stupid, nobody cares what she says and does."
It is your best weapon to show pride in yourself and that you are above the pettyness of it all.
2007-07-04 11:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... last year my whole class wanted to get even with a math teacher we really hated, we got the whole thing organized, during class no one said anything at all but:
1-when he turned to write on the board everyone started giggling or outright laughing
2- when he stepped out of the door for a second everyone immediately started talking loudly and when he looked at the class everyone shut up and stared at him
3- as he walked around the class everyone stared at him, like those creepy wall clocks shaped like a cat with eyes and a tail that move
4- and when he asked what was so funny, and he asked at least 5 people, said 5 people answered ''i remembered something funny that happened yesterday'' while sharing meaningful glances with the people closest to them.
5-modify to fit your needs
and something a friend and i did to a classmate:
the whole day we had put stickers on the backs of chairs (the part your back leans on) with the sticky side up
(ok, lick the decorative part of the sticker, and place it on the back of the chair, your saliva will hold it there for a few seconds)
so when someone sat in the rigged chair the sticker would get stuck on them.
also you can place the sticker on the seat of the chair, thus ending up with a victim with a sticker on his @ss.
ok, that's the simple part. do that enough and everyone will know to check their backs for stickers.
now. i placed the sticker on the back of my victims chair, my victim walked over to his chair and as he was turning to sit in it i started giggling uncontrolably (i was in the chair behind him).
he assumed he had a sticker and started running his hand over his back to find it. this cracked me up even more.
he is now trying to find an inexistent sticker as my best friend and i are laughing our heads off and neighboring students are laughing at my friend and i.
victim is getting really frustrated.
he asks his friends to take the sticker off his back. his friends say he doesn't have one.
victim gets mad because now he thinks his friends are in on the joke. eventually he gives up and sits down.
20 minutes later he stands up with a sticker that says ''cheap chicken breast'' on his back.
i collapse on my desk and proceed to die of asphyxiation since i'm laughing so hard i don't get a chance to breath.
and the simplest and most used mind trick: tell your friend you forgive her, are sorry etc... then lie to her and tell her that everyone is spreading rumors about her. i don't recommend that though.
2007-07-04 13:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by alpha mutt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch the film scanners. and watch daryl revok (michael ironside) when he says to stephen lack ' right were gonna do this the scanner way, im gonna suck your brain dry!'
2007-07-04 11:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try lies that are scary/believable..or just get back at her physically and verbally. and get everyone against her by making something up :)
2007-07-04 11:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u can giv her the silent treatment, if that don't work just keep going
2007-07-04 11:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
with your hands and a plate of pasta, esp. penne
2007-07-04 11:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by bluesdude2765 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
with your mind
2007-07-04 11:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋