my boobs are the biggest in the 6th grade class. They make me feel bad by teasing saying '' a bomb is about to blow off''! and ''boob alert boob alert''. what should i do ? how can i make them smaller? anyone!? and i wear a womens bra!?
2007-07-04 11:12:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Listen, its not your problem. I am the total oppisite. I am a size A. and hunnie, they made fun of me because i had none. So it don't matter if your got them or you don't. kids will be kids. Just learn to love them! Be pround of yourself, but don't try to show them off to much, gotta make un wonder what's under the shirt.
The only way to make them smaller is by sugery and you cant do that until your 18!
hope i helped.
2007-07-04 11:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Those kids who are teasing you will regret it in the future. So try to ignore them.
I know, easier said then done. I was HUGE when I was in school and got teased constantly.
First, go and get professionally sized at Nordstroms, Sears, or JCPenney (I do not recommend VS because they do not size correctly, speaking from personal experience). Then find a nice comfortable supportive bra for you to wear.
Make sure you aren't wearing clothing that would bring attention to your breasts. Low cut shirts, stripes, etc. aren't good to wear if you want kids to ignore your breast size.
You could also play along with them.
"boob alert boob alert" - say "announcing yourself?"
"a bomb is about to blow off" - say "NO! Please do NOT fart!"
You could talk to your doctor with your mom. If you are having physical issues like back pain, a breast reduction could be beneficial in the future. They might not operate on you when you are so young, but they take that on a case by case basis.
Good luck, I feel for you. You WILL make it through the teasing!!! :)
2007-07-04 20:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isnt too much you can do about them at this point, so learn to love them. Just think, you will probably never have to get breast implants. Women would kill to be genetically lucky enough to get big breasts.
As for now, you could try getting a sports bra. It will make them a little flatter. Also, girls might not poke so much fun at them while changing during gym class if you are wearing a sports bra that doesnt scream "women's bra". Otherwise, maybe try getting some cute girlier bras in bright colors and patterns instead of just plain white or nude colors. It will make the other girls take notice in a good way. Deep down they are just a little jealous, so why not give them something to really be jealous about. Most training bras dont come in such sexy styles as you can wear.
Keep in mind, everyone is awkward growing up. Be proud of who you are. You'll be fine. Good luck :)
2007-07-04 18:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your same situation in 6th grade. When people start making those comments, either think of a good come back ("You're just jealous" "You're so immature!" or "Do you have a problem with my body? Because I don't have a problem with yours.") or ignore it. Believe me, I know how frustrating it is to have people constantly point out things you have no control over, but the last thing you want to do is to try to hide them, and you definitely shouldn't feel ashamed. Focus on how smart you are, what a great friend you are, a certain hobby you enjoy; not your body. Eventually others will "catch up" and they'll be just as mortified as you - until everyone just gets over it and stops looking at each other under a magnifying glass all day.
If it's REALLY distressing, you can always tell your teacher, or have your parents talk to your teacher.
Good luck.
2007-07-04 18:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that there is a way to make them smaller....just keep in mind that when people are teasing you about them its really because they are jealous that they aren't as lucky as you!!
If you go to a bra store and ask the clerks there may be a type of bra that will make you look a little smaller....i.e a sports bra tends to work...but they aren't the most comfortable things to where!!
2007-07-04 18:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by maeve J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! You should be happy just the way you are. You will learn to love them just how they are. Wait for a while. When you are 17 or 18 think about whether you still don't like the size, because there are alternatives. But in the meantime, you're fine the way you are and don't let anybody tell you otherwise! They're probably jealous!
2007-07-04 21:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're just jealous.
If you're self-conscious about them, wear larger shirts that aren't tight against them. Stay away from underwire bras, they tend to support more and add lift, which doesn't sound like what you want right now...
As you get older, you won't be teased anymore since your friends will have matured... and will have boobs themselves.
Good Luck :)
2007-07-04 18:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by CDA~NY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those people are just jealous that they haven't started puberty. Don't worry your just a really early bloomer and your boobs are going to stop growing soon enough. If you start growing early you will stop early too. Once again the girls are just super jealous and the guys just like boobs.
2007-07-04 18:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by kitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cousin and i both wore a woman's bra in 6th grade. it'll be okay. just don't become a slut or anything. and wear shirts that compliment you,not make you look like you're asking for it. and don't let guys have anything to do with your boobs. they're your's. and not to mention you're too young for that anyways. i know it sounds silly, but don't let any guy fool with your mind. be strong. :)
2007-07-04 22:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by emmyelaine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will catch up with you. They are jealous. Give the boys 2-3 years and it will not be a problem at all.
2007-07-04 18:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by tx1942txx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋