2007-07-04 10:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you hiding it? I think that is a personal type answer. What I mean is, that some couple are okay with it and don't have a problem with it at all. I personally feel like it is a form of cheating. If my husband had to look at other women or watch other couples to excite him, then what am I doing wrong? Why am I not good enough? Does he look at them because that is who he thinks about when he is with me? Those are the same thoughts I would have if he cheated. To me personally it is cheating.
2007-07-04 10:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kel.It,s not so much cheating on your marriage, it's cheating on yourself.Are you so inept you can't make your marriage as exciting as watching porn? What's the matter? Surely in this day and age watching it together would be the best. Boy! That would turn me on.Then you could practice on each other.
2007-07-04 10:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This answer would depend on the religion, or no religion, you belong. If your religion is against it, which most are, then you are cheating on the religion and not your marriage. It takes a very open mind, on both parts, but discuss it with you partner. They may also enjoy it and it would put spice in your life.
2007-07-04 10:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Natural Medicine Man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if it's affecting your sex life then it's wrong. My ex husband was addicted to porn and our sex life was non-existent!! If it bothers your spouse or if it's being used because you're not satisified with your spouse, then I see a problem. Some women find it to be offensive or demeaning to women... you might want to get your spouses opinion and then make some decisions.
2007-07-04 10:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, you need to get a grip on this porn thing... what exactly is cheating??? answer: physical and emotional contact outside of marriage.... question what is porn??? answer: pictures, video of strangers f' ing, s'ing, b f'ing, ect... question. how do you have physical and emotional contact with a video or a picture??? get the picture???? you know what kel...send all the email to me you like... im not gonna stay out of any questions.. if you dont like the answers, stay out of the questions.... i can now understand why you husband doesnt like you or want to put up with you....really i can...you obviously dont have any understanding for someone who disagrees with you, and your husband is obviously one of them....for anyone who doesnt know, kel sends email telling me to stay out of her questions, because she doesnt like the answer... but guess what.. you cannot email kel because she has her email blocked... nice job kel.. youre a class act....its you that has the problems, not me...thankfully.
2007-07-04 11:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it is a substitute from having relations with you, then I would say yes.
2007-07-04 10:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think soa
as long as he doesnt prefer to be watching it than doing it with u
2007-07-04 10:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my husband as long as he looks at it with me no problem but if our sex life sucks then he looks at it go find another wife
2007-07-04 10:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about cheating, but it may be considered disrespectful if you are hiding it from your partner and you know your partner objects to it.
2007-07-04 10:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would say no. As long as there is no physical contact.:)
2007-07-04 10:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cardinals fan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋