This girl I went to elementary school with used me out of $150 & lied to me saying she was gonna use that money to get married. Her man must not love her if he couldn't pay for it. & she lied about getting married & now, she's all of a sudden getting all this "free stuff". She took my money & went & spent it on tattoos. & now she's talking about coming all the way from New Orleans, LA to Denton, TX to come kick my @$$, just becuase I caught her in her lie.
2007-07-04 09:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you know how conservative and straitlaced (and some people even say prissy) I can be, but here is what I would tell her:
Bring it b-i-t-c-h.
Some of us have compassion and caring for others. We will be used and even abused sometimes, but the good outweights the bad. I would rather help three people and have two of them abuse it and not care about me than miss that thried person who really needs help.
2007-07-04 10:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A number of issues here. First, why would a man loan $150 to a female to get married to another man? The slots in Vegas cannot be considered as "using" you if you give them the money with a free will.
Second, for someone to travel from New Orleans to Denton to do some kicking must not have much to do with their time. I suggest cutting all communication between the two of you. If she has knowledge of where you live I would suggest being a good Boy Scout and Be Prepared. She cannot kick you butt if you don't turn your back on her.
2007-07-04 17:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Natural Medicine Man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all never ever lend a friend money without some kind of document where that person actually signs it. You are just out of $150.00 and will probably never see it again. She lied to you about the money and the marriage and more than likely about coming to TX to kick your a $$. So dont worry. She is lying about that too. Just let it all go and hopefully you have learned a valuable lesson from this. Good luck.
2007-07-04 17:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get that person out of youre life because it sounds like she is a user .as far as the coming to kick youre *** ,people who are like that are usually people who dont go through with it . if she is a person who is known to go around kicking peoples asses for her mistakes then a good place for her would be confined to a place where she can do it in a controlled enviroment,if you know what i mean. if she shows up you call the police and have her arrested . maybe some time in the pokey might give her a chance to think about her actions. and too many times of that and she will get the message to leave you alone.
2007-07-04 17:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is she going to afford the trip? Borrow money from you again? I would just write this off as a life lesson. Say goodbye to her as a friend and move on. I'm sure you can find other more worthy people to associate with. If you act confident and demand respect then you will attract the right people in your life. She sounds like a real loser to me.
2007-07-04 17:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by alisjohnst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not clear to me. But all I can say is move on. Talk and confront her for being abused by this person. And don't let her do this again to you.
2007-07-04 19:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Allan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to make that statement in an email and then forward it to the police as a terroristic threat.
2007-07-04 17:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, cut your losses and don't bother with her ever again.
And watch out for people like this in the future. They're dangerous.
2007-07-04 17:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So? She won't do it. People lie, you just need to wise up to that fact, because people are manipulative when there's a bit of coin to gain. Money doesn't help relationships, it tears them apart.
2007-07-04 17:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rey Gamberro Salvador 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont stress yourself over this *****, never lend money to anyone and if she really is gonna come and kick your as$ just call the cops..dont take sh!t from anyone especially a worthless liar
2007-07-04 17:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋