i have absolutely no sex life, i broke up with my very long term BF like 8 month ago, we had been keeping an overseas relationship for the last 3 years, in witch i sleep with some one twice at a range of a year apart, now i am single and available and i have no sex life what so ever, i don't what to get involved with him cause he is too much to handle (clingy) besides the fact that the only thing we have in common is where we used to work and i do not what anything serious i just what to have fun but i can seem to find my self out there, so what can i do to regain my sex life with some sort of dignity???
2007-07-04 09:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by babyblues 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Have you considered dating? How about singles chat lines? The dating help ads in the newspaper? Some desperate whistling in the street? Make sure you have some test/questions to know if it is the right kind of person this time during the first meet-and-greet.
2007-07-04 09:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are easy. Its the girl who decides if she's going to have sex or not. Pick one (hopefully not a married one) and take him home. All these upity people are wrong. There is nothing wrong with sex for sex sake. If you want to and have no bad feelings about it why not? You are an adult, not a high school girl. Its ok, dignity has nothing to do with sex. You may even end up with a wonderful life partner or just a one night stand. No biggie. Adults all over the world do it.
2007-07-04 10:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be patient and get involved with social opportunities, you will meet people who will be able to fulfill this aspect of your life. If you respect the people you have sex with, then you will be able to "regain your sex life with dignity". It's okay to have sex with people you don't want to have a long term relationship established. Sometimes a good fun frolic is just what is needed... by both participants. So, lighten up and have fun.
2007-07-04 10:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by jivemee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on where you live n such. If you just wanna get laid, and im assuming you're a woman, then you're at the ease with the fact that there's 1,000 creepy, horny men ready to do just that.
Try going out on the next few weekends to a local dance club, Yahoo! personals, or even MySpace. Perverts are predators in chatrooms, looking for innocent prey like you. Stay away from open online communities like that.
2007-07-04 10:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by atoughlife2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHy worry about not having a sex life??????? First of all you have to live your life then when you are feeling relaxed and happy in yourself you will attract others and from there things will start to happen.
Learn to be an interesting person first and truly others will be attracted to you.
Remember when you make female friends usually they have brothers or other male relatives so make friends from both sexes......
2007-07-04 16:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by i love my garden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you sex is icky! Try Yahoo's dating on line or any good site. But make sure you put a stop to it and use a card that is a onetime number. Or just go shopping for a man somewhere where you have an interest. You will meet men that have similar interests.
2007-07-04 10:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Men can spot a desperate women. Carry yourself well. Besides having a sex life is great but don't get to eager with the wrong person you may end up with something.
2007-07-04 10:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
anytime you have sex out of wedlock you gave up that option of dignity. So instead of having a perminate thing you find a good male friend that understands your plight. and just have what the book... Delicious sex calls. platonic sex. no one is hurt and it is safer than strange.
2007-07-04 10:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find the right man and plan on getting married, the best thing you can do for yourself
2007-07-07 04:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date.....And just have a friend that u can just talk to when u want to have sex..I dont think there's anything wrong with that..
2007-07-04 10:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by VOTE THE SMART WAY! VOTE OBAMA!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋