i have this really good guy friend but every now and then he'll get in a horny mood and ask me nasty questions and say he'll undress me and finger me. my best friend is his girlfriend. all this started with was him expressing his sexual side to me on AIM like he would just type and i wouldnt say anything then we would just go on with other conversations.. now hes asking me nasty questions and saying he's gonna do all this. then when he's out of his mood he'll be like ohh idk if i'll really do that i just say anything when im horny. im like okkk! but then when he is horny he makes plans to get me alone & finger me... like i said he has a girlfriend and that happens to be my best friend from kindergarten. now im almost a freshman in august.. please help. i dont know what to do!!!!
2007-07-04 05:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by mexicanluver0009 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be far away from this guy... really far... block him on ur aim... after showing ur friend what kind of guy he is... and is not all his fault, is also yours you should know ur limits and tell him to stop when he is passing the line!!
Good luck reveiling that guy's horny side!!
2007-07-07 05:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥becauseisme♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
freshman for hs!!!??? so you are 14? thats gross. Stay away from this pervy horny jerk. He has a gf and obviously doesn't care what happens to her and him. Tell her about the stuff he has said to you. Maybe he wants sex from your best friend and isn't getting it and thats what is making him do horny. If that is the case you should DEFINATELY get your friend and lose the loser.
2007-07-04 05:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kaidra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that he is being inappropriate and that it makes you uncomfortable. There is nothing wrong with telling him when he has crossed the line.
It isn't right for him to talk to anyone but his girlfriend like that if he is truly serious about his relationship. Men are entitled to their fantasies but that should be left in his head or talking to his girlfriend. It can put you in a bad place if she ever found out and especially if it led to something.
I am sure your friendship with your friend is more important in the end.
2007-07-04 05:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Eq2Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this little horny pervert. He is an *** if he is saying this to you (an 8th grader!!!) and especially while having a g/f who is your friend. Stay away from him or else you risk losing you girlfriend. Plus you are too young to be doing things like that.
2007-07-04 05:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 01:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by hughart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do? Are you serious? If you're bf with his gf, then you should know what to do. He's a jerk and why are you communicating so much with your bf's bf? Where is your boyfriend? Tell your best friend the truth and tell him that he has made you uncomfortable. CUT OFF THE COMMUNICATION OR IT WILL END YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR BF! Good luck with that one.
2007-07-04 05:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by LS's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him. Tell him that it is not appropiate and that you don't want him talking to you like that. I would tell his girlfriend too. Better she find out what kind of guy he is sooner vs. later. And if he doesnt' stop I would go to your parents or his. Or to another adult that can help you.
2007-07-04 05:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by jbenishmlt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is extremely disrespecful.. what kind of a friend is he?? for real.. you shouldnt let anyone talk to you like that.. trust me.. put an end to this.. or just stop talking to him.. geez.. dont you have any self respect?? and im not an old lady or anything.. im 21.. and what you are doing is so wrong.. what kind of friend are YOU?? tell your friend right now!!..
2007-07-04 06:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by ˚despeяate housewife˚ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i know a guy just like that his name is dean and he is dating one of my friends but he still doesn't get that i am not going to do that to him.So finally one day i just stopped talking to him and he told me he was sorry and everything so now we talk about other things.
2007-07-04 05:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by okiebaby93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him he's after more than your friendship? how would your girlfriend feel if she knew? avoid being alone with him and don't let ANYONE speak dirty to you unless you want them to do.....
2007-07-04 05:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by jenush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋