Well my ex not really an ex since I used him told everyone at his party what I did to him and now everyone hates me. EvEN UGLY PEOPLE have dates to a dance except for me not one boy asked! Everyone else has a date! literally i am 12!
2007-07-04 04:29:02 · 24 answers · asked by ♥♫I look after you♥♫ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Maybe because They are ugly in the outside but not in inside... Instead you seem ugly on the inside...
2007-07-07 05:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥becauseisme♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is beautiful/handsome to someone, beauty comes from within. It's not just an external thing.
Someone that has a beautiful outside shell and an ugly personality inside will appear ugly outside too because the ugliness shows though the exterior shell.
What you consider ugly is not what others consider ugly obviously.
The reason you don't have a date is because you did something that others perceive as a nasty and ugly person inside to do that, so they want no part of you until you are a nicer person.
What you need to do is learn from your mistake, pick yourself up, apologize to the person you hurt and learn to not do it again. Maybe next time you will have a date like everyone else.
Life has a funny way of teaching us important lessons and if your smart enough to learn them you will have a good life, your still young and have lots of time for dates in your lifetime.
I'm sorry your hurting but it appears from your post that you did it to yourself.
2007-07-04 11:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 12 sucks, don't worry about getting a date to the dance yet, when we had our first dance everyone just went with groups of friends, you should definetley apologize to the guy, I think it will get better as the years go on, just try to be nice to everyone and don;t create problems and people won't have problems with you, and i think eventually it will blow over, maybe sooner than you think, its never as bad as you think, but yeah 12 is a really awkward age, but having the whole school turned against you isn't a good thing, you should work on that....
2007-07-04 11:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. This is really dumb. You did this all to yourself anyway. If you weren't so worried about what everyone thought of you, none of this would have happened. You are twelve years old!
I'm almost 16 and haven't had a boyfriend for almost a year, but i really could care less. I'm out having fun w. my girlfriends for now. You need to grow up.
At 12 you should be finding who your friends are, not worrying about boys.
Oh yeah, and 'ugly people' ..saying that makes you sound like a b*tch.
Soo.. i advise you to forget about boys and go hang out w. your friends. You probably don't have any friends actually-so go make some :)
2007-07-04 13:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY here, hold up. Let me inform you that getting a date has little to do with your outward appearance, even if you are "the most ugliest people". And I'd cut this charade that you're all "High and gorgeous" and, by gone it, "you should have a date!" Because, let me inform you, what you did to your "ex" was absolutely horrendous and I can understand why no one wants to date you. They don't want you to use them like you did the other boy.
And I'll get started on my next subject: Why do you freaking care about dating??? You're TWELVE! You can't even (legally) see a PG13 movie yet, and you can't drive! Twelve is not a time for boyfriends, but bestfriends. Take the hint that only shallow 12 year olds need boyfriends... They need a boyfriend to make up for their shortage of regular friends.
2007-07-04 11:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Squeegee Beckingheim :-) 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
At 12 years of age, don't worry about dating, have fun with friends and relax, dating will come. As far as the using the ex, a true heart felt apology should help, there is no quick fix when you hurt someone but there are things that you can do to lessen the blow. The key is honesty and to make sure that you follow your heart.
2007-07-04 12:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, grow up and build a bridge. I'm 12 too and i'm really enjoying my single life. You have to admit that it was your fault for using a guy who genuinely liked you. It's not a dance for 12 year old kids that everyone is going to remember when they're 75, its going to be their formal when they graduate high school. Go there, hang out with the girls and have fun.... or there's always the alternative, sit on the couch watching the saddest chick flick ever with a bucket of ice cream and cookies while wallowing in your own sorrowful self-pity..... which one aound more appealing??
x...Kootonii.
PS. if it's any consolation, i turned up to my primary graduation last year without a date, i just hung out with my friends and talked to my guy friends who didnt wanna dance.
2007-07-04 11:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should've known that this was going to happen. Plus, you're 12 years old! Aren't you a little to young to try and start playing games with people? By the way, don't be superficial! Ugly people can have dates too. They're probably more fun to be around anyways.
2007-07-04 11:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
THEY SHOULD HATE YOU! ok, first off, it is very rude to say:
everyone in school even the most UGLIEST peole have dates except for me! thats rude and inconsiderate. and no, not everyone has dates. wise up little girl. the world dosnt revolve around you, and you ex had the right to tell everyone that you used him. you made a mistake, and eventually they will forget about it. dating is not all about looks anyway.
2007-07-04 12:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anon omus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here, let me go cry for you. GROW UP! Your freakin 12! Wait til your 15/16 to start dating. 12 year olds don't need boyfriends, they need friends. And at a dance you go to HAVEFUN, not to be stuck to a date all night.
2007-07-04 12:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? You go to dances to have fun and dance, not to stick to a date! The last 2 dances, I went with no date, but at the end of the night, I had 4 girls' phone numbers. You GO to dances to GET dates.
2007-07-04 11:38:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋